Couples
TANTRIC MASSAGE
3-Day Staycation Retreat
September 26-28
Experience Freedom In Your Body & Gain Next Level Sex Skills…BOTH OF YOU
NO MORE ORGASM DISCREPANCIES
NO MORE INSECURITIES AROUND SEX
Join from the privacy of your bedroom to learn the art of tantric massage and alllllll of the skills required for to safely surrender and experience pressure-free pleasure
TRAUMA-INFORMED. GENDER NEUTRAL. INTERSECTIONAL.
Without having to leave your house…
Without flying hours and hours to Tantra Island…
Without man buns and the toxic binary of “divine feminine” and “divine feminine”…
SAY YES and learn how to hold and be held in deep, healing, pleasurable sexual space all in three life-changing days
YouWant To:
Experience a deep sexual & spiritual connection…
Be an amazing & confident lover…
Safely surrender during sexual intimacy…
Feel absolutely NO PRESSURE to perform…
Give your partner deep pleasure and multiple orgasms…
Humans are sensitive to energy.
Learn how to confidently hold space for yourself and your partner, and watch your sex life transform.
So whether it’s…
Emotional, Physical, or Sexual
THE RESULT?
THE TWO OF YOU
DEEPLY CONNECTED.
SEEN. HEARD. SAFE. CONFIDENT. BLISSED OUT!
I HAVE SEEN OVER AND OVER AGAIN THAT WHEN LOVING COUPLES CAN HOLD SPACE FOR THEMSELVES AND ONE ANOTHER
(instead of getting defensive, shutting down, or not speaking up at all)
They can come together to co-create satisfying, fulfilling, pleasurable experiences
WITHOUT HAVING TO MINDREAD OR TELEPATHICALLY TELL THEIR PARTNER WHAT THEY WANT THEM TO DO
Everything in our culture tells us sex should be easy and spontaneous and always feel good and we should want it all of the time…under the guise of it being for both people
(Spoiler alert! We don’t all have the same libido and definitely not all throughout our lives.)
Let’s return love, connection, and pleasure TO THE RELATIONSHIP
Get rid of the unspoken, unreasonable, mind-reading expectations
Say good-bye to formulaic and inauthentic, cheap gifts
INSTEAD, take co-responsibility for an experience that’s MAGICAL and SEXY for both of you
HOW WE’LL DO IT DIFFERENTLY…
TRAUMA INFORMED
This means we go slow and at the pace of your body. By learning and recognizing triggers as well as how to resource, anchor, and ground on your own and with your partner, we build safety, trust, and opportunities to heal.
GENDER NEUTRAL & INCLUSIVE
This means you won't hear anything about "divine masculine" and "divine feminine" or binary genders. We honor people's pronouns and expression as well as the body parts we're born with, surgically embrace, and energetically embody.
INTERSECTIONAL
This means we acknowledge the systems of suppression that affect our sex, love, and relationships as well as our identity. We work with the myths, violence, and trauma of the culture we've been born into that don't represent our worthiness.
ACCESSIBLE
PLEASE SHARE YOUR ACCESS NEEDS. This means we honor neurodiverse, chronically ill, hard of hearing folk, and those with visible and invisible disabilities. We make captions available and strive to make the space accessible and inclusive by being online and with long breaks.
This 3-DAY JOURNEY into tantric massage is for:
COMMITTED COUPLES AT ANY STAGE who want to go deeper in their mental, emotional, sexual, and spiritual connection with themselves and one another
QUEER AND TRANS FOLK who want to experience sacred sexuality outside of heteronormative, binary paradigms of “sacred masculinity” and “sacred femininity” with gender neutral terms; expansive, inclusive language; and opportunities to explore energetic body parts
WHITE PEOPLE AND NON-INDIAN SUBCONTINENT FOLK who want to explore a tradition within more modern contexts (some versions have always been meant as a practice within daily life) with appreciation instead of appropriation
PEOPLE WHO HAVE SEXUAL TRAUMA HISTORY, HAVE GROWN UP IN RELIGION, OR EXIST IN OUR RAPE CULTURE-ENABLING SOCIETY who want to learn a trauma-informed approach to tantric massage and practice
Read my article, What Is Tantra? A Way of Being, Not Just A Sexual Practice
SAY YES TO THE MOST life-changing partnered sexual practice you’ve ever experienced!
THIS RETREAT INCLUDES:
A 3-day staycation experience in the comfort of your own home so your skills don't stay in some tropical hideaway...they're living and breathing in your bedroom
Guided videos and guided audios for ongoing learning and exploration after you've completed the retreat so you don't have to remember everything
Simple, step-by-step guidance for Sacred Setup & Preparation to make your space feel special so you can transform ordinary into extraordinary every week on your own
The accessible and easy to understand 3-3-3 Tantra Intro for a foundation in tantric philosophies, principles, and practices so you can begin to feel grounded in what tantra is about before practicing tantra
My Playful Holding Space Training for learning how to hold mental and emotional space for your partner before exploring physical and sexual space-holding with the Tantric Massage Setup & Positioning
Learning and sensitizing to the strong reactions of stress cycles: Fight, flight, freeze, and fawn and how to feel them from within your own body and track to see if they're happening in your partner's along with a Sexual Grounding Practice to return to any time the person who is receiving tantric massage seems to be having a strong reaction
Periodic reminders to check in with your Turn On Signaling System for sensitizing to your turn-on changing and learning what to do if you want to slow things down or speed things up so the experience isn't over prematurely or end with disappointment
Naming what feels good through a Sensational Presence Practice and working with Four Sexual Feedback Questions for more pleasure without getting defensive or walling off inside
To invite blood flow to get turned on more, get hard and stay hard, you'll learn the External Pelvis Dearmoring Process for tightness and tension in the body when you're offering and receiving to release what's holding you back from experiencing more and deeper pleasure as well as Loving & Caring Genital Touch
Inviting pleasure in the body with different External Genital Strokes and Penetrating Pleasure Guidance for vaginal g-spot, cervical, a-spot, and p-spot orgasms as well as prostate massage and anal exploration
AND SO MUCH MORE....
WHAT’S THE ITINERARY LIKE?
FRI. SEPT 26
7:30 - 8:30 am Guided Sacred Self-Pleasure Session (optional)
8:30 - 9:30 am Online check in
8:30 - 10:00 am BREAKFAST
10:00 - 12:00 pm Morning Session
12:00 - 3:00 pm LUNCH
3:00 - 5:00 pm Afternoon Session
5:00 - 7:00 pm DINNER
7:00 - 9:00 pm Evening Session
9:00 - 10:00 pm Celebration Lounge & Play On Your Own (unfacilitated)
SAT. SEPT. 27
7:30 - 8:30 am Guided Sacred Self-Pleasure Session (optional)
8:30 - 10:00 am BREAKFAST
10:00 - 12:00 pm Morning Session
12:00 - 3:00 pm LUNCH
3:00 - 5:00 pm Afternoon Session
5:00 - 7:00 pm DINNER
7:00 - 9:00 pm Evening Session
9:00 - 10:00 pm Celebration Lounge & Play On Your Own (unfacilitated)
SUN. SEPT. 28
7:30 - 8:30 am Guided Sacred Self-Pleasure Session (optional)
8:30 - 10:00 am BREAKFAST
10:00 - 12:00 pm Morning Session
12:00 - 3:00 pm LUNCH
3:00 - 5:00 pm Afternoon Session
5:00 - 7:00 pm DINNER
7:00 - 9:00 pm Celebrations & Closing
Couples Tantric Massage
Learn together how to move toward intimacy that is connecting and pleasurable for both of you
$899 Regular Price
or
3 Payments of $299
$799 Discounted Price
or
3 Payments of $267 through September 12
$699 Early Price
or
3 payments of $233 through August 8
Hey, I’m Daniela (she/they)
Daniela (she/they) is a trauma-informed, certified Tantric Sex Coach, though she thinks it's more accurate to describe her as a Sacred Sexuality Coach inspired by tantric and taoist practices. Daniela is also a Sex & Intimacy Coach for couples and individuals.
She started learning mindset and practices inspired by tantra and taoism in 2014 through Layla Martin, a white American woman, who was taught by Ma Ananda Sarita, a white English woman who for 17 years trained directly with Osho, an Indian guru. Her tantric practice is also informed by others like Lama Rod Owens, a Black queer Southern man formally trained in the Tibetan Buddhist and Tantric Buddhist lineage.
With over twenty-four years of experience, she supports people to experience more sex and deeper connection with themselves and with their partner(s) without pushing, forcing, avoiding, or performing.
For her, nothing is more important than connection.