FIRST, Are we a good fit for a consultation?

If I'm not the right fit for you,

I don’t want to waste your time.

That’s the kind of person I am. :)

I’m a good fit if:

• You want to take action steps toward what you want to be feeling and experiencing around sex, love, and relationships

• You’re looking for practical support that’s desire-led and body-based

• You want the flexibility of individual coaching, relationship coaching, or both

• You want the flexibility of online coaching, in-person coaching, or both

• You individually have 60 minutes a week in person or online to commit to coaching sessions along with 5-15 minutes for practices in between sessions

• Your partner and you together have 75 minutes a week to commit to relationship coaching sessions online or in person along with 5-15 minutes for practices in between sessions

• You’re financially resourced enough for at least 3 months (better is a minimum of 6 months); my rates are here

• You have the motivation to attend weekly sessions and engage practices and exercises in between sessions for 3-6 months

• If you need a taste of what’s possible, we can explore a DesireStarter 5-pack of sex and intimacy coaching sessions that are $2,050 in person/$1,875 online USD for couples and $1,675 in person/$1,500 online USD for individuals. Schedule a consultation for it here.

I’m not a good fit if:

• You’re experiencing an emergency or an acute crisis

• You need a trauma specialist to work on specific sexual trauma or diagnosed PTSD (I’m trauma-informed and do work with clients who have experienced trauma)

• You’re looking for talk therapy with a licensed therapist or counselor

• You are looking for a hands-on healer, massage therapist, or sex worker (search here instead)

• You need week night or weekend availability (I work Monday through Friday from 9 am - 5:30 pm PT)

• You don’t have time each week to commit to coaching sessions and weekly practices (Is it possible to commit for five weeks? Also, I have lower time commitment options available)

• You’re not financially resourced to pay for weekly coaching sessions for 3-6 months (Check if the DesireStarter 5-session option works for you, or I have free and lower-cost resources available)

• You’re not sure you’re ready to commit to change within yourself and/or with your partner (Want to check in for five weeks and see what’s possible? I also have lower risk opportunities available)

Hey, I'm Daniela.
(pronouns: she/they)

I’M A SEX AND INTIMACY COACH.

For over twenty years, I’ve worked with thousands of people coaching one-on-one, teaching in college classrooms, and guiding them in yoga studios.

I support committed couples and individuals like you to experience deep sexual connection and intimacy with yourself and your partner.

I want to guide you to co-create the sex you want and the intimacy you desire.

For me it’s about deep connection.