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INTRO TO TANTRIC MASSAGE: Freedom in Your Body & Next Level Sex Skills by Knowing the Light & Dark of This Erotic, Healing, Spiritual Practice
LEARN THE TRUTH ABOUT TANTRIC MASSAGE
Hear about the types of tantric massage, the intentions behind them, the glorious benefits of tantric massage when done well, and the hurt and harm that can happen when we're not taught well. Finally, you'll hear solutions that include an invitation into an 8-session special tantric massage private course.
TRAUMA INFORMED. GENDER NEUTRAL & INCLUSIVE. INTERSECTIONAL. Please share your access needs.
YOU WANT TO:
Experience a deep sexual and spiritual connection
Be an amazing and confident lover
Safely surrender during sexual intimacy
Feel absolutely NO PRESSURE to perform
Give your partner deep pleasure and multiple orgasms
Know bliss and ecstasy
Explore sacred sexuality
TO GET THERE, THIS WEBINAR INCLUDES:
The accessible and easy to understand 3-3-3 Tantra Intro for a foundation in tantric philosophies, principles, and practices so you can begin to feel grounded in what tantra is about before practicing tantra
An introduction to three basic types of tantric massage and the 8 Holistic Sex Tools that are a part of the standard practice, so you can begin to understand why it's important to reorient away from sex and to move toward pleasure
A detailed breakdown of the benefits of each so you have an in-depth understanding of why they're so powerful and how they work together
A transparent look at the hurt and harm that tantra and tantric massage can cause
Solutions with a trauma-informed, gender inclusive, intersectional approach to learning and practicing tantric massage whether you're receiving, offering, or ideally both
Opportunities to ask questions and hear other people's answers so you can know if this is a practice you want to learn and experience
THIS WORKSHOP IS FOR:
People who are single and want to explore tantric self-massage as a sexual and spiritual practice on their own for deep self-intimacy
Queer and trans folk who want to experience sacred sexuality outside heteronormative, binary paradigms of "sacred masculinity" and "sacred femininity"
Committed couples at any stage who want to go deeper in their connection with themselves and with one another
White people and non-Indian-subcontinent folk who want to explore a tradition within more modern contexts (some versions have always been meant as a practice within modern life)
People who have sexual trauma history, have grown up in religion, or exist in our rape culture-enabling society who want to learn a trauma-informed approach to tantric massage and practice

FEEL YOUR HEART: A Tantra-Inspired Active Breathwork & Guided Visualization Class
CONNECT TO & FEEL YOUR HEART
Be guided through a heart-focused class with active breathwork and guided visualization for deep connection to yourself.
TRAUMA INFORMED. GENDER NEUTRAL. INTERSECTIONAL. Please share your access needs.
YOU WANT TO:
Connect to your heart
Feel human again
Stop feeling numb or dissociated from your body
Slow down the overwhelm
Lead from your heart
Feel what you're feeling in a safer way
Experience a deep and spiritual connection to yourself and all things
TO GET THERE, THIS CLASS INCLUDES:
Learn the Shifting for Presence & Connection practice for any time you want to context shift and be in the moment
Follow the Safety Resourcing & Anchoring practice for anytime you feel a sense of overwhelm, panic, or flashback
A simple Sensational Presence Practice for connecting your body and your mind and sensitizing to the wisdom of your body
Activating Heart Sensation Breathwork for igniting feeling in your chest even if you feel numb
Stream joy and compassion throughout your system with the Eight Directions Body Love-Filling Breath
To strengthen the feelings of love and emotion, we'll invite Sounding Sensations Play
Offer our heart what it needs with the Safety & Softness Intentions to the Heart practice
To move beyond our own experience and to an experience of interconnectedness, we'll explore the Universal Heart & Love Connection Breath Visualization
To build a loving and caring relationship with your body and hear, we'll go through a guided Chest Massage
We'll come to a close with the Integration & Aftercare Practice so you can reflect on your experience and know what you need moving into the rest of your day and week

BEDROCK: Learn Your Libido with A 5-Piece Framework
LEARN YOUR REAL & TRUE LIBIDO
Learn five of the most important frameworks around love, desire, sex, & relationships by taking five quizzes to get immediate information about yourself for change you can apply right away
TRAUMA INFORMED. GENDER NEUTRAL. INTERSECTIONAL. Please share your access needs.
YOU WANT TO:
Have more sex
Feel loved before moving toward sex
Feel good during sex
Know if you're normal when it comes to sex
Experience deeper connection
Be confident around how and when to initiate sex and deeper connection
TO GET THERE, THIS WORKSHOP INCLUDES:
The fun, easy, and deeply insightful BEDROCK: 5-Piece Framework for learning about your libido to bring crystal clarity to your love, sex, and relationships
Fill-in-the-blanks worksheets for the five quizzes I give to all of my private clients, so you can return over and over to who you are and how you work
A detailed breakdown of each framework so you have an in-depth understanding of why they're important and how they work together
Time and support in a small group or on your own so you can take the quizzes and talk through your results to be crystal clear on how they work for you
Opportunities to ask questions and hear other people's answers so you can apply with confidence what you've learned to your sex and intimacy right now
THIS WORKSHOP IS FOR:
People who are single and want to know more about themselves when it comes to love, sex, and relationships
People who are dating and/or having casual sex who want to be transparent around what they’re looking for
Queer, trans, heterosexual folks as well as those practicing CNM/ENM and/or additional expressions & dynamics who want to know who they are and name what they want outside of oppressive, dominant paradigms
Couples whose relationship is new and who want to start off with clarity and self-awareness to build a strong relationship
Long-term committed couples who want to reconnect and rekindle their sex life and are willing to learn about themselves to begin again
Committed couples at any stage who desire to go deeper and explore who you are to grow an amazing relationship and sex life

INTRO TO JADE EGG: Radiant, Turned On, & Alive In Your Body With This Orgasmic, Pain-Melting, Confidence-Building Practice
LEARN ABOUT A JADE EGG PRACTICE!
Listen to what a jade egg practice is, what kinds of jade eggs to consider purchasing, and how to string a jade egg. You'll also hear about the intentions behind a jade egg practice as well as the physical, emotional, and spiritual benefits of a jade egg practice. Finally, you'll be introduced to a warm up exercise you can try, and you’ll be invited to join live and guided jade egg practices throughout the summer.
TRAUMA INFORMED. GENDER NEUTRAL & INCLUSIVE. INTERSECTIONAL. Please share your access needs.
YOU WANT TO:
Connect to your sexuality
Have orgasms quickly and more easily
Feel at home in your body
Finally have an orgasm
Remember what it feels like to be alive
Experience different types of orgasms
Be a sexual person again
Become multiorgasmic
TO GET THERE, THIS WEBINAR INCLUDES:
Accessible and easy to understand introduction to a jade egg practice and taoism
The 4-Step Jade Egg Setup traditional jade egg and crystal egg options (right egg, right size egg, boiling, stringing)
An introduction to 8 Holistic Sex Tools that are a part of the standard practice, so you can begin to understand why it's important to reorient away from sex and to move toward pleasure
A detailed breakdown of the physical, emotional, and spiritual benefits so you have an in-depth understanding of why the practice is so powerful
A bite-sized exercise that’s foundational practice for within a jade egg practice and also as a stand alone daily practice
Invitation to trauma-informed, gender inclusive, intersectional live and guided jade egg practices to experience for yourself
Opportunities to ask questions and hear other people's answers so you can know if this is a practice you want to learn and experience
THIS WORKSHOP IS FOR:
Women and people who have vaginas who want to explore a sensual and spiritual self-pleasure practice to (re)connect with their sexuality
Queer and trans folk who have vaginas or energetic vaginas who want to experience sacred sexuality outside heteronormative, binary paradigms of "sacred masculinity" and "sacred femininity"
People who feel numb or disconnected from their bodies and want to slowly and gently learn how to reconnect
People who have sexual trauma histories who have worked with therapists and now want to learn and actually experience how to feel safer and more connected to their bodies in a trauma-informed way without pushing or forcing
People who have had surgery around their cervix, ovaries, uteruses, vaginas, and/or breasts and want to connect with and strengthen the energy to these parts of them

Come Alive
Move Toward Sexual Intimacy by Reawakening & Exploring Your Sensual Vibrancy
YOU WANT TO FEEL VIBRANT AND ALIVE
Without drinking a third cup of coffee and vibrating through your skin
Without having to take vacations every month or quit your job
Without having an existential crisis or being a mid-life cliché
Let’s slow down. Let’s feel more. Let’s do less…once a week.
LET’S START YOUR SEX PRACTICE
Join me for a 75-minute Sex Practice where I will guide both to receive and offer a sense-based experience to make you feel alive again. Slow down, connect with your bodies, take your time, and delight in each sense and sensation without rushing toward a goal.
For Loving & Committed Couples F0r Whom Sex is Important
People in All Bodies, of All Expressions, and in All Relationship Dynamics Are Invited & Welcome
MICS OFF. CAMERAS OFF. THIS IS FOR YOU TWO.
Early price: $40 USD per couple through March 12
Regular price: $45 USD per couple

Healing Our Sexual Selves
Move Toward Sexual Intimacy by Transforming Your Limiting Sensual Self-Perceptions
CLAIM YOUR AUTHENTIC SEXUALITY
Without collapsing into what you think your partner wants…
Without the guilt and shame of religion and dominant beliefs…
Without letting your ghosts haunt your bedroom….
Instead, start with clarifying your most pleasurable sexual self and allow your partner to hold space for your fears and desires
BY STARTING YOUR SEX PRACTICE
Join me for a 75-minute Sex Practice where I will support you to identify who you are in the bedroom right now, who your partner wants you to be, and who you are when your sexuality is given all the permission to experience pleasure, desire, and arousal exactly the way you want to without getting frozen in performance.
For Loving Couples For Whom Sex is Important
People in All Bodies, of All Expressions, and in All Relationship Dynamics Are Invited & Welcome
MICS OFF. CAMERAS OFF. THIS IS FOR YOU TWO.
Early price: $40 per couple through February 27
Regular price: $45 per couple

ONLINE: Talking Sex for Couples
A Holding Space Training for Sexual Feedback for Loving Couples Within A 75-Minute Sex Practice
SHARE YOUR DEEPEST TRUTHS AROUND SEX & INTIMACY
Without being shut down, criticized, or told you're wrong…
AVOIDING defensiveness, it being taken personally, or getting misconstrued…
Without feeling like your desires and fears don't matter….
Instead, start with communication that feels like unconditional love & support while exploring curious questions for experiencing more pleasure in your body
Join me for a 75-minute Sex Practice where I will guide you through a holding space training so you can be seen, heard, and understood and offer the same to your partner before moving into exploring and experiencing asking and being asked four questions for feedback before, during, and after sex.
For Loving Couples F0r Whom Sex is Important
People in All Bodies, of All Expressions, and in All Relationship Dynamics Are Invited & Welcome
MICS OFF. CAMERAS OFF. THIS IS FOR YOU TWO.
Early price: $40 USD per couple through February 26
Regular price: $45 per couple

ONLINE: Talking Sex for Individuals
Join me for a holding space training for self-talk around self-pleasuring and partnered sex. I will guide you toward experiencing communication with yourself that feels like unconditional love while exploring curious questions for experiencing more acceptance with & pleasure in your body.
For Sensual & Sexual Individuals and Those Who Want to Be
Early price: $20 USD per person through February 26
Regular price: $25 per person

IN PERSON: Talking Sex for Individuals
Join me for a holding space training for self-talk around self-pleasuring and partnered sex. I will guide you toward experiencing communication with yourself that feels like unconditional love while exploring curious questions for experiencing more acceptance with & pleasure in your body.
For Sensual & Sexual Individuals and Those Who Want to Be
Early price: $20 USD per person through February 26
Regular price: $25 per person

IN PERSON: Feel It All
Join me for a 30-minute class to get out of emotional overwhelm and shift into human-centered culture-making and world-changing action with a bite-sized emotions-expressing practice in less than seven minutes.
This is event is inspired by an intersectional, trauma-informed, queer sacred sexuality framework. ALL ARE WELCOME.
Non-gendered and inclusive language is used throughout
People in All Bodies, of All Expressions, and in All Relationship Dynamics Are Invited & Welcome
Please share access needs and how I can support you. I have yoga mats, chairs with and without arms, pillows, and blankets for various setups and configurations.
Price: $15 per person

Couple Bubble Creation
Move Toward Sexual Intimacy from a Foundation of Relationship Clarity & Connection
GET ON THE SAME PAGE & HAVE ONE ANOTHER’S BACKS
Without having to read or translate the whole book of “My Partner”…
NOT by going in circles and circles arguing and feeling misunderstood or dismissed…
Without eye rolls and audible exhales of frustration…
Instead, start with relationship clarity around what’s important to each of you & building the energy of togetherness BY STARTING YOUR SEX PRACTICE
Join me for a 75-minute Sex Practice where I will guide you to connect to yourself and your partner with a communication practice and the practice of creating an energetic couple bubble.
For Loving Couples F0r Whom Sex is Important
People in All Bodies, of All Expressions, and in All Relationship Dynamics Are Invited & Welcome
MICS OFF. CAMERAS OFF. THIS IS FOR YOU TWO.
Early price: $40 USD per couple through January 29
Regular price: $45 USD per couple

HeartBURST
Move Toward Sexual Intimacy from a Foundation of Love & Connection
Co-create a HEART CONNECTION
Without hours of pillowtalk taking away from needed sleep…
NOT by adding to the busy and overwhelmed already happening…
Without it feeling like a chore, burden, or responsibility…
Instead, start with clarity around how you offer love to and receive love from one another
BY STARTING YOUR SEX PRACTICE
Join me for a 75-minute Sex Practice where I will guide you to build a loving connection with your partner by clarifying your partner’s and your primary Love Languages, holding space for the details around feeling loved and loving toward one another, and invite you into experiencing the energy of joy, love, and compassion…all without it being your anniversary.
For Loving Couples F0r Whom Sex is Important
People in All Bodies, of All Expressions, and in All Relationship Dynamics Are Invited & Welcome
MICS OFF. CAMERAS OFF. THIS IS FOR YOU TWO.
Early price: $40 per couple through January 15
Regular price: $45 per couple

BEDROCK: Foundations For Sex & Intimacy Workshop
FIVE Quizzes.
FIVE Frameworks.
CLARITY for Life.
For people for whom sex and intimacy is important and those who want to experience deep sexual connection with themselves and a partner or partners
THIS IS WHAT I WANT FOR YOU:
Love that fills you up and lights you from within
Sex that inspires your fullest expressions and invites you into the deepest pleasure
Understanding of how you’re wired and the ways in which you work
Clarity around what is important for you in a relationship
Focus on what you want to experience through partnered sex (because you can have orgasms on your own)
Confidence around how to pull it all together
THIS WORKSHOP IS SPECIFICALLY FOR:
Individuals not in a relationship who want to clarify their love and pleasure.
People who are dating and/or having casual sex who want to authentically request what they’re looking for.
Queer, trans, heterosexual folks as well as those practicing CNM/ENM and/or additional expressions & dynamics who desire to know who they are and name what they want outside of oppressive dominant paradigms
Couples whose relationship is new and who want to start off with clarity and self-awareness toward depth.
People in a relationship who are excited to learn about themselves and what they want and need.
Long-term committed couples who want to reconnect and are willing to learn about themselves to begin again.
Committed couples at any stage who desire to go deeper and explore who you are to grow an amazing relationship and sex life.
WITH THIS EXPERIENCE YOU GET:
ACCESS to the five most important quizzes you need to bring clarity to your love, pleasure, and relationships
INSIGHT into why each one is important with a 30-minute introduction
SUPPORT in a small group to move through the quizzes and talk through your individual results for 30 minutes
ADVICE so you can apply what you've learned to your sex and intimacy right now with a 30-minute Q&A
ABOUT YOUR FACILITATOR:
Daniela (she/they) is a certified Sex and Intimacy Coach for couples and individuals as well as a speaker and writer practicing somatic abolitionism and appropriated tantra.
Named one of the ten best Sex and Intimacy Coaches of 2023 by DatingAdvice.com, she supports couples and individuals to experience deep sexual connection and intimacy with themselves and with their partner(s).
With over twenty-three years of experience coaching people one-on-one and teaching in college classrooms and yoga studios, she curates exercises and practices steeped in somatic attachment theory, neuroscience, embodied conflict resolution, trauma healing, modern psychology, and ancient tantric and taoist wisdom.
Daniela is a queer cisgendered woman raced as white born in the Bay Area as well as a biological and transnational adoptive parent of three.
She lives and works as an uninvited guest on occupied Ohlone land that’s known as San Jose, California in the United States.
For her, nothing is more important than connection.
Website: DanielaStevens.com
Social Media: @danielastevensnow

Five Senses Awakening
Join me for a 75-minute Sex Practice where I will guide both to receive and offer a sense-based experience to make you feel alive again. Slow down, connect with your bodies, take your time, and delight in each sense and sensation without rushing toward a goal.
For Loving & Committed Couples F0r Whom Sex is Important
People in All Bodies, of All Expressions, and in All Relationship Dynamics Are Invited & Welcome
Early price: $30 USD per couple through December 4
Regular price: $35 USD per couple

Healing Our Sexual Selves
Join me for a 75-minute Sex Practice where I will support you to illuminate what’s in the dark by clarifying, connecting, and healing around your sexual selves.
For Loving Couples For Whom Sex is Important
People in All Bodies, of All Expressions, and in All Relationship Dynamics Are Invited & Welcome
MICS OFF, CAMERAS OFF. THIS IS FOR YOU TWO.
Early price: $30 per couple through November 6
Regular price: $35 per couple

Sex Talk
Join me for a 75-minute Sex Practice where I will guide you through a holding space training so you can be seen, heard, and understood and offer the same to your partner before moving into exploring and experiencing asking and being asked four questions for feedback before, during, and after sex.
For Loving Couples F0r Whom Sex is Important
People in All Bodies, of All Expressions, and in All Relationship Dynamics Are Invited & Welcome
Early price: $30 USD per couple through October 23
Regular price: $35 per couple

Couple Bubble Creation
Join me for a 75-minute Sex Practice where I will guide you to connect to yourself and your partner with a communication practice and the practice of creating an energetic couple bubble.
For Loving Couples F0r Whom Sex is Important
People in All Bodies, of All Expressions, and in All Relationship Dynamics Are Invited & Welcome
Early price: $30 USD per couple through October 9
Regular price: $35 per couple

HeartBURST: A Sex Practice for Love & Connection
Move Toward Sexual Intimacy from a Foundation of Love & Connection
Co-create a HEART CONNECTION
Without hours of pillowtalk taking away from needed sleep…
NOT by adding to the busy and overwhelmed already happening…
Without it feeling like a chore, burden, or responsibility…
Instead, start with clarity around how you offer love to and receive love from one another
BY STARTING YOUR SEX PRACTICE
Early price: $30 per couple through September 24
Regular price: $35 per couple
Click here for more information and to pay to reserve your spot.

FLUSH: Discovering & Exploring Our Sexual Edges
Join me for an hour long workshop where I will guide you toward discovering and naming your various sexual edges and clarifying how to communicate them with a partner or partners with compassion and curiosity.
For Individuals in All Bodies, of All Expressions, and in All Relationship Dynamics
Who Want To Deeply Connect, Rekindle, & Feel Radiant and Alive
Early bird: $17 USD per person through July 17
Regular price: $20 per person
CLICK HERE TO LEARN MORE

EN BED: Embodying Our Sexual Archetypes
Join me for an hour long workshop where I will guide you each toward embodying three different sexual archetypes and sharing with your partner the insights they offer.
For Couples in All Bodies, of All Expressions, and in All Relationship Dynamics
Who Want To Deeply Connect, Rekindle, & Feel Radiant and Alive
Early bird: $17 USD per person through June 19
Regular price: $20 per person

SEX BOX: Exploring Holistic Sex Tools for Expanding Pleasure and Orgasmic Capacity
Early bird: $17 per person by May 8
Regular price: $20 per person
Does it feel like if you knew how to invite more pleasure into your body, partnered sex would be better?
Does it feel like you want to be a better attuned lover?
When we’re told we have to learn what we like in order to share with our partner how they can invite us into more pleasure, it’s sooo helpful to have a framework for understanding orgasm.
We have to explore the embodiment, learn the words, and invite curiosity to be present all with an intention toward experiencing the most amount of pleasure possible in the moment.
Join me for an hour long in-person workshop where I will guide you through:
The formula or equation for understanding orgasm
Eight holistic sex tools for expanding pleasure and capacity for orgasms and multiple orgasms
Four questions to ask yourself during self-pleasure and partnered sex as well as what you can ask your partner
Whether you want to explore your sexuality on your own and/or want to improve your partnered sex, this workshop will offer you clarity around what orgasm is, eight holistic sex tools around building pleasure, and questions to ask ourselves and our partner to bolster our curiosity and confidence toward moving beyond feeling good toward feeling amazing.
INCLUSIVE & DIVERSE LANGUAGE AND GUIDANCE FOR PEOPLE IN ALL BODIES, OF ALL EXPRESSIONS, AND IN ALL RELATIONSHIP DYNAMICS WHO WANT TO DEEPLY CONNECT, REKINDLE, & FEEL RADIANT AND ALIVE
HERE IS WHAT YOU CAN EXPECT:
CREATE YOUR SPACE: Once you arrive, you’ll be invited to create a spot where you feel comfortable enough. This isn’t your private space, and these will be practices you can take home for private experiences. For this event, you might set up a yoga mat, grab a blanket (these are provided), and a pillow on the floor. It’s up to what feels good for you.
INTRO: I will introduce myself, and I will not invite you to introduce yourself to everyone else. This is a workshop for you and not a community-building workshop.
DESCRIPTIONS: Beginning with a sharing around an equation for orgasm, I'll then describe each of the eight holistic sex tools and four questions to ask during sexual intimacy with ourselves and/or with a partner.
SHIFTING & RESOURCING: We’ll then shift to embodiment starting with a guided meditation for setting down the outside world and connecting inward to our bodyminds. Next I'll support you to identify and connect with a resource toward enough safety to explore vulnerably and bravely.
GUIDED EMBODIMENT: Through a "cold" guided meditation without activating turn on or pleasure with touch, I'll invite you to imagine yourself in an experience of sexual intimacy while guiding you through a body-based visualization of each holistic sex tool being built upon the next and the experience of being asked/asking yourself the four sex feedback questions one at a time. There will be no explicit sexuality in the room. Everyone's clothes stay on the entire time.
SHIFT: A gentle shift out of the guided meditation practice will come with move, process, and begin to integrate slowly.
EXPLORE AT HOME: We’ll finish as I give you a sense of how to build on this “cold” guided practice at home with self-pleasure and/or partnered sex. You’ll receive an email from me within 24 hours with guided audios and additional offerings for support.
ABOUT YOUR FACILITATOR:
Daniela (she/they) is a certified Sex and Intimacy Coach, speaker, and writer practicing somatic abolitionism and neo-tantra.
Named one of the ten best Sex and Intimacy Coaches of 2023 by DatingAdvice.com, she supports couples and individuals to experience deep sexual connection and intimacy with themselves and with their partner(s).
With over twenty years of experience coaching people one-on-one and teaching in college classrooms and yoga studios, she curates exercises and practices steeped in somatic attachment theory, neuroscience, embodied conflict resolution, trauma healing, modern psychology, and ancient tantric and taoist wisdom.
Daniela is a queer cisgendered woman raced as white born in the Bay Area as well as a biological and transnational adoptive parent of three.
She lives and works as an uninvited guest on occupied Muwekma Ohlone land that’s known as San Jose, California in the United States.
For her, nothing is more important than connection.
Website: DanielaStevens.com
Social Media: @danielastevensnow
SEX BOX: Exploring Holistic Sex Tools for Expanding Pleasure and Orgasmic Capacity
SATURDAY, May 11, 2024 from 7 - 8 pm
A HEALING PLACE WELLNESS CENTER
841 Blossom Hill Rd Suite 112-A
San Jose, CA 95123
Early bird: $17 per person by May 8
Regular price: $20 per person
Who Want To Deeply Connect, Rekindle, & Feel Radiant and Alive

HOLD ON: Holding Space Training for Desires, Fears, Loves
Early bird: $35 USD per couple by April 10
Regular price: $40 per couple
Does it feel like your partner never listens to you, can’t see or hear who you truly are?
Do you find yourself lost trying to fix your partner, give them advice they don’t take, or making yourself responsible for their discomfort?
When we love our partner and are attuned to their emotional and mental states…when they’re not good, we’re not good.
We have to learn how to hold ourselves apart from them, hold space for whatever they’re going through, and support one another through what we’re experiencing in life.
Join me for an hour long workshop where I will guide you through:
A holding space training
An embodied sense of what holding space for someone feels like and what it’s like for it to be held for you
My most effective and efficient communication and connection practice: Desires, Fears, Loves
Whether you're in a new relationship or one that’s been through some things, this experience will train you how to hold space for one another, request and offer specific communication, embody deeply seeing and hearing your partner, and cultivate the experience of being deeply seen, heard, known, and supported.
FOR COUPLES IN ALL BODIES, OF ALL EXPRESSIONS, AND IN ALL RELATIONSHIP DYNAMICS WHO WANT TO DEEPLY CONNECT, REKINDLE, & FEEL RADIANT AND ALIVE
HERE IS WHAT YOU CAN EXPECT:
CREATE YOUR SPACE: Once you arrive, you’ll be invited to create a spot where your partner and you feel comfortable enough together. This isn’t your private space, and these will be practices you can take home. For this event, you might set up two chairs, sit on a yoga mat together, or among blankets on the floor (these are provided). It’s your choice.
INTRO: I will introduce myself, and I will not invite you to introduce yourself to everyone else. This is a workshop for the two of you and not a group workshop.
SHIFT TO CONNECT TO SELF: We’ll begin with a guided meditation for meeting yourself and resourcing within the space.
HOLDING SPACE TRAINING: Our communication and connection-based practice will invite you to take turns being the sharer and the listener with instructions through five rounds each of playful, embodied experience.
SHARE: The invitation will be for your partner and you to take a few minutes to share what you noticed, what you experienced, what was uncomfortable, what felt too familiar of a habit.
DESIRES, FEARS, LOVES: Continuing with verbal guidance from me, together you’ll move through a communication and connection practice that involves holding space and taking turns inside of a structured exercise asking each other through three rounds:
“What do you desire around our relationship?”
“What do you fear around our relationship?”
“What do you love about me?”
SHIFT: A gentle shift out of the energy practices will come with an invitation to hug, cuddle, or touch if both of you feel open to it.
TAKE IT HOME: We’ll finish as I give you a sense of what to expect in the afterglow of this experience and how to take it home with you, including where you can find more information around starting a Sex Practice. You’ll receive an email from me within 24 hours with guided audios and additional offerings for support.
ABOUT YOUR FACILITATOR:
Daniela (she/they) is a certified Sex and Intimacy Coach, speaker, and writer practicing somatic abolitionism and neo-tantra.
Named one of the ten best Sex and Intimacy Coaches of 2023 by DatingAdvice.com, she supports couples and individuals to experience deep sexual connection and intimacy with themselves and with their partner(s).
With over twenty years of experience coaching people one-on-one and teaching in college classrooms and yoga studios, she curates exercises and practices steeped in somatic attachment theory, neuroscience, embodied conflict resolution, trauma healing, modern psychology, and ancient tantric and taoist wisdom.
Daniela is a queer cisgendered woman raced as white born in the Bay Area as well as a biological and transnational adoptive parent of three.
She lives and works as an uninvited guest on occupied Muwekma Ohlone land that’s known as San Jose, California in the United States.
For her, nothing is more important than connection.
Website: DanielaStevens.com
Social Media: @danielastevensnow
HOLD ON: Holding Space Training for Desires, Fears, Loves
SATURDAY, April 13, 2024 from 7 - 8 pm
A HEALING PLACE WELLNESS CENTER
841 Blossom Hill Rd Suite 112-A
San Jose, CA 95123
Early bird: $35 USD per couple by April 10
Regular price: $40 per couple

DEEP FEELS: Energizing & Embodying Your Couple Bubble
Early bird: $35 USD per couple through March 13
Regular price: $40 per couple
Does it feel like your partner and you aren’t on the same page?
Does it feel like you’ve lost track of who you are, who your partner is, and who you are together?
When we carry so much responsibility that whole villages and communities would have bolstered in the past,
We have to co-create space to recalibrate if the intimacy of deep connection, care, support, and love is important to us.
Join me for an hour long workshop where I will guide you toward:
Co-creating the energy of your couple bubble
Connecting through a synchronized breath
Eye gazing
Soul gazing
Whether you're in a relationship that’s ten months or ten years old,
This experience will support you to come back to yourselves, embrace your desires and what you each want, toss aside what’s holding you both back, and co-create the energy of partnership.
FOR COUPLES IN ALL BODIES, OF ALL EXPRESSIONS, AND IN ALL RELATIONSHIP DYNAMICS WHO WANT TO DEEPLY CONNECT, REKINDLE, & FEEL RADIANT AND ALIVE
HERE IS WHAT YOU CAN EXPECT:
CREATE YOUR SPACE: Once you arrive, you’ll be invited to create a spot where your partner and you feel comfortable enough together. This isn’t your private space, and these will be practices you can take home. For this event, you might set up two folding chairs, sit on a yoga mat together, or upon pillows on the floor. It’s your choice.
INTRO: I will introduce myself, and I will not invite you to introduce yourself to everyone else. This is a workshop for the two of you and not a group workshop.
SHIFT TO CONNECT TO SELF: We’ll begin with a guided meditation for meeting yourself and resourcing within the space.
CONNECT TO PARTNER: Continuing with verbal guidance from me, together you’ll move through a communication and connection-based couple bubble practice to a synchronized breath, eye gazing, and then soul gazing to deeply connect with one another.
SHIFT: A gentle shift out of the energy practices will come with an invitation to hug, cuddle, or touch if both of you feel open to it.
TAKE IT HOME: We’ll finish as I give you a sense of what to expect in the afterglow of this experience and how to take it home with you, including where you can find more information around starting a Sex Practice. You’ll receive an email from me within 24 hours with guided audios and additional offerings for support.
ABOUT YOUR FACILITATOR:
Daniela (she/they) is a certified Sex and Intimacy Coach, speaker, and writer practicing somatic abolitionism and neo-tantra.
Named one of the ten best Sex and Intimacy Coaches of 2023 by DatingAdvice.com, she supports couples and individuals to experience deep sexual connection and intimacy with themselves and with their partner(s).
With over twenty years of experience coaching people one-on-one and teaching in college classrooms and yoga studios, she curates exercises and practices steeped in somatic attachment theory, neuroscience, embodied conflict resolution, trauma healing, modern psychology, and ancient tantric and taoist wisdom.
Daniela is a queer cisgendered woman raced as white born in the Bay Area as well as a biological and transnational adoptive parent of three.
She lives and works as an uninvited guest on occupied Muwekma Ohlone land that’s known as San Jose, California in the United States.
For her, nothing is more important than connection.
Website: DanielaStevens.com
Social Media: @danielastevensnow
DEEP FEELS: Energizing & Embodying Your Couple Bubble
SATURDAY, March 16, 2024
from 7 - 8 pm
A HEALING PLACE WELLNESS CENTER
841 Blossom Hill Rd Suite 112-A
San Jose, CA 95123
Early bird: $35 USD per couple through March 13
Regular price: $40 per couple
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I will also be sharing with you reframes to inspire & support you to remember you’re worthy of more intimacy & intimacy with yourself and your partner(s)
PAST ONLINE & IN-PERSON EVENTS INCLUDED:
Online & Guided Sex Practices:
HEARTBURST: Foundations of Love & Connection for Moving Toward Sexual Intimacy
COUPLE BUBBLE CREATION: Foundations of Relationship Clarity & Connection for Moving Toward Sexual Intimacy
TALKING SEX: Foundations of Holding Space for Sexual Feedback for Moving Toward Sexual Intimacy
HEALING OUR SEXUAL SELVES: Transforming Your Limiting Sensual Self-Perceptions for Moving Toward Sexual Intimacy
COME ALIVE: Reawakening & Exploring Your Sensual Vibrancy for Moving Toward Sexual Intimacy
In Person at
A Healing Place:
FEELIN’ LOVE: Embodied Heart Connection Workshop for Couples
DEEP FEELS: Energizing & Embodying Your Couple Bubble
HOLD ON: Holding Space Training for Desires, Fears, Loves
SEX BOX: Exploring Holistic Sex Tools for Expanding Pleasure and Orgasms
FLUSH: Discovering & Communicating Our Sexual Edges
EN BED: Embodying Our Sexual Archetypes
SAVOR: Intimacy-Activating Breathwork for Individuals and Couples
Lunch & Learn
Online Series:
LOVING & BEING LOVED: Actions and Embodiment
TOWARD YOUR PLEASURE: Exploring Your Erotic Blueprint
DESIRE & AROUSAL: Initiating With Yourself & Your Partner
CONFLICT TRANSFORMATION: Three Skills For Changing Sex, Love, & Relationships
CO-CREATING YOUR SEX PRACTICE: Leaving Out The Worst of Scheduled Sex and Date Nights







