Guilt, shame, and pressure push you to have sex before you're ready, but it frequently hurts.

YOU FEEL LIKE:

• Something is wrong with you

• Your sexuality is broken

• You’re not normal but everyone else is having amazing sex

• Your partner deserves to be happy and have sex

• You're letting your partner down

• You'd never have sex if you didn't force yourself to

• You'd be happy without ever having sex again

• You can't talk to anybody about this

• You've tried sex toys, lube, and watching porn

• Maybe life would be better if you opened up your relationship so your partner could have sex with people who can have sex without pain

BUT...

YOU FEEL BRAVE & CURIOUS, AND YOU WANT TO:

1. Keep your relationship and your partner

2. Be accepted exactly as you are

3. Feel normal

4. Experience compassion for what you're going through

5. Figure out your next steps

BECAUSE ULTIMATELY YOU WANT TO:

1. Experience pressure-free and pain-free sex

2. Want to want to have sex and feel desire again

3. Feel good about your body and sexuality

4. Maaaaybe even experience pleasure and multiple orgasms yourself

GATHER WITH OTHER WOMEN AND PEOPLE WITH VAGINAS TO:

• SHARE and DISCUSS the realities of experiencing pain during sex

• RECEIVE support and reflections on what's worked and what hasn't

• BUILD a stronger culture of authentic expectations by hearing what's normal for you and others

• Get ACTIONABLE ADVICE from a sex expert who won't judge or shame you

Join us for:

PAIN DURING SEX: Support, Discuss, & Coaching Gathering for Women & People with Vaginas

CAMERAS CAN BE ON OR OFF. TRAUMA INFORMED. GENDER NEUTRAL and INCLUSIVE LANGUAGE. INTERSECTIONAL. Please share your access needs.

$25 regular price

$15 discount price

Pay and save your spot here:

https://daniela.thrivecart.com/pain-during-sex-group/

HERE'S WHAT YOU CAN EXPECT:

>> 6:00 - 6:10 pm An introduction to Daniela and our call agreements and format

>> 6:10 - 6:20 pm Once around the group with an invitation to share your name and pronouns and experiences, topics, or questions you have

>> 6:20 - 6:45 pm Open conversation on what's been brought up, sharing as little or as much as you like

>> 6:45 - 6:55 pm Option for coaching and action steps to explore

>> 6:55 - 7:00 pm Recap and closing

ABOUT YOUR FACILITATOR:

Daniela (she/they) is a trauma-informed, certified Tantra Coach and Sex and Intimacy Coach for couples and individuals as well as a speaker and writer practicing somatic abolitionism and appropriated tantra.

Named one of the ten best Sex and Intimacy Coaches of 2023 by DatingAdvice.com, she supports couples and individuals to experience more sex and deeper connection with themselves and with their partner(s) without pushing before their body is ready, feeling weak, or performing.

With over twenty-four years of experience coaching people one-on-one and teaching in college classrooms and wellness spaces, she curates exercises and practices steeped in somatic attachment theory, neuroscience, embodied conflict resolution, trauma resolution, and modern psychology and inspired by ancient tantric and taoist wisdom.

Daniela is a queer cisgendered woman raced as white born in the Bay Area as well as a biological and transnational adoptive parent of three.

She lives and works as an uninvited guest on occupied Ohlone land that’s currently known as San Jose, California in the United States.

For her, nothing is more important than connection.

Website: DanielaStevens.com

Social Media: @danielastevensnow

PRESSURE TO PERFORM SUCKS.

YOU FEEL LIKE:

• Your penis is betraying you

• Something is wrong with you

• Your sexuality is broken

• You’re not normal but everyone else is having amazing sex

• You're letting your partner down

• You're less of a person

• You can't talk to anybody about this

• You've tried thinking about baseball and global warming, but it takes you out of the experience

• You don't want to take pills, because you should be able to figure this out on your own

• Maybe life would be better if you took sex off the table

BUT...

YOU FEEL BRAVE & CURIOUS, AND YOU WANT TO:

• Be desired and accepted exactly as you are

• Feel normal

• Experience compassion for what you're going through

• Figure out your next steps

BECAUSE ULTIMATELY YOU WANT TO:

• Last as long as you want

• Deeply satisfy your partner every time

• Confidently initiate sex

GATHER WITH OTHER MEN AND PEOPLE WITH PENISES TO:

• SHARE and DISCUSS the realities of wanting to last longer during sex

• RECEIVE support and reflections on what's worked and what hasn't

• BUILD a stronger culture of authentic expectations by hearing what's normal for you and others

• Get VERBAL ADVICE from a sex expert who won't judge or shame you (no visual support)

Join us for:

LAST LONGER: Support, Discuss, and Coaching Gathering for Men and People with Penises

CAMERAS CAN BE ON OR OFF FOR ANONYMITY. TALK-BASED WITH NO EXPLICIT SEXUALITY (NO MASTURBATION OR SELF-PLEASURE).

TRAUMA INFORMED. GENDER NEUTRAL and INCLUSIVE LANGUAGE. INTERSECTIONAL. Please share your access needs.

$25 Regular price

$15 Community price

Pay and save your spot here:

https://daniela.thrivecart.com/last-longer-group/

HERE'S WHAT YOU CAN EXPECT:

>> 6:00 - 6:10 pm An introduction to Daniela and our call agreements and format

>> 6:10 - 6:20 pm Once around the group with an invitation to share your name and pronouns and experiences, topics, or questions you have

>> 6:20 - 6:45 pm Open conversation on what's been brought up, sharing as little or as much as you like

>> 6:45 - 6:55 pm Option for verbal coaching and action steps to explore (no visual support or guidance)

>> 6:55 - 7:00 pm Recap and closing

ABOUT YOUR FACILITATOR:

Daniela (she/they) is a trauma-informed, certified Tantra Coach and Sex and Intimacy Coach for couples and individuals as well as a speaker and writer practicing somatic abolitionism and appropriated tantra.

Named one of the ten best Sex and Intimacy Coaches of 2023 by DatingAdvice.com, she supports couples and individuals to experience more sex and deeper connection with themselves and with their partner(s) without pushing before their body is ready, feeling weak, or performing.

With over twenty-four years of experience coaching people one-on-one and teaching in college classrooms and wellness spaces, she curates exercises and practices steeped in somatic attachment theory, neuroscience, embodied conflict resolution, trauma resolution, and modern psychology and inspired by ancient tantric and taoist wisdom.

Daniela is a queer cisgendered woman raced as white born in the Bay Area as well as a biological and transnational adoptive parent of three.

She lives and works as an uninvited guest on occupied Ohlone land that’s currently known as San Jose, California in the United States.

For her, nothing is more important than connection.

Website: DanielaStevens.com
Social Media: @danielastevensnow

TURN OFF YOUR CAMERA ∙ TURN OFF YOUR MIC ∙ BE GUIDED TOWARD YOUR PLEASURE
Experience self-pleasure as a sacred way to be with your sexuality. Rewire masturbation away from a stress-relieving, help-you-sleep thing…toward a deep and meaningful way to connect with yourself.

You’ll be guided to set up your space and then to lay back to release stress, soften your body, explore your pleasure, and remember you’re worthy and deserving of feeling good. Experience freedom from your feed, freedom from making decisions, and freedom from being in charge. Instead relax back to receive, receive, receive.

TRAUMA INFORMED. NON-GENDERED & INCLUSIVE LANGUAGE. INTERSECTIONAL. Please share your access needs.

$25 per person
Recording is available until Friday, August 1, 2025 at 5 pm PT.

IF YOU FEEL LIKE:

• Your sexuality is broken

• You’re not normal but everyone else is having amazing experiences

• Masturbating makes you feel lonelier

• You watch too much porn, and it’s a problem

• Sex is sinful and wrong

• Your body is dirty and unworthy of love

• You’re ashamed of who you are, how you look, and/or how you feel
  

BUT YOU FEEL BRAVE & CURIOUS, AND YOU WANT TO EXPERIENCE:

• Your body as sacred and divine

• Your whole self as deserving of love

• Your sexuality as worthy of honoring and expressing

• Deep, intimate connection to and acceptance of all parts of yourself

• Celebration of your unique pleasure and authentic expression

• Warm and kind guidance to explore your body

• Permission to honor what you need moment to moment

• Encouragement to celebrate your body, sexuality, and pleasure

THIS CLASS IS FOR:

• PEOPLE WHO ALREADY HAVE A GREAT MASTURBATION OR SELF-PLEASURE PRACTICE who want to embrace their divinity

• PEOPLE WHO WANT TO HEAL and are willing to access love and compassion around woundings for deeper self-love and acceptance

• PEOPLE WHO FEEL RELIANT ON PARTNERED SEX FOR PLEASURE AND VALUE and have forgotten who they are as sexual beings with desires all their own

THIS CLASS IS NOT FOR:

• PEOPLE WHO NEED A TRAUMA SPECIALIST and may have specific sexual trauma, diagnosed PTSD, or need to seek other inner work

• PEOPLE WHO WANT A PILL OR A QUICK FIX and who aren’t ready to commit to vulnerable and exciting inner and outer work

Welcome To SACRED SELF-PLEASURE: A Guided Class

IN THIS CLASS, YOU’LL GET:

• Simple, step-by-step guidance for Sacred Setup & Preparation to make your space feel special

• A guided experience into Sacred Self-Pleasure so you can rewire masturbation into a spiritual practice

• My Shifting for Sexual Intimacy Exercise for getting out of your head and to stop making lists so you can set down work and chores to slow down, be present and connect with yourself all so you can relax and enjoy your body

• Follow the Safety Resourcing & Anchoring Practice for anytime you feel a sense of discomfort, overwhelm, panic, or flashback so you can calm yourself and regulate

• My Consent & Slowing Down Rewiring Process for gaining safety and capacity for being present and feeling sensations in your body

• Periodic reminders to check in with your Turn On Signaling System for sensitizing to your turn-on changing and learning what to do if you want to slow things down or speed things up

• Guidance through the 8 Holistic Sex Tools that transform masturbation into an experience of tantric sacred self-pleasure

• The Recap & Aftercare Communication Practice for sharing what went well, what could have been different, and what you need to feel cared for and safe so you can move into the rest of your day grounded and supported

LEARN HOW TO HOLD SPACE THAT FEELS LIKE UNCONDITIONAL LOVE

Experience a learning process where you intentionally explore communication with another person. You'll alternating interrupting one another in a light and playful manner before settling into embodying a space for your partner's and your deepest truths to emerge.

Come with your partner, friend, or family member OR be put in a breakout room with one other person

$25 regular price

Recording available through Saturday, July 26 at 5 pm PST

TRAUMA INFORMED. GENDER NEUTRAL. INTERSECTIONAL. Please share your access needs.

YOU WANT TO:

• Feel seen

• Be heard

• Experience connection

• Feel like you matter to those you care about the most

• Get on the same page

• Feel safer sharing or exploring vulnerable things

• Be accepted just as you are, for all that you are

• Offer the same to those you're closest to

TO GET THERE, THIS TRAINING INCLUDES FIVE ROUNDS WITH:

1. A playful experience of interrupting and making it personal or changing the subject to focus on you

2. Jumping in to offer advice when it's not requested

3. Intentionally but lightly making the other person wrong

4. Listening though planning what you're going to say once it's your turn

5. Finally learning how to hold space for your training partner's deepest truths and clarity to emerge on their own

WORKSHOP FORMAT:

>> 10:00 - 10:10 am An introduction to Daniela

>> 10:10 - 10:40 am Guidance through the Playful Holding Space Training with your partner or in breakout rooms with someone else

>> 10:40 - 10:50 am Integration and discussion of what you experienced and what holding space means to you

>> 10:50 - 11:00 am Sharing and closing

TURN OFF YOUR CAMERA ∙ TURN OFF YOUR MIC ∙ BE GUIDED TOWARD YOUR PLEASURE
Experience self-pleasure as a sacred way to be with your sexuality. Rewire masturbation away from a stress-relieving, help-you-sleep thing…toward a deep and meaningful way to connect with yourself.

You’ll be guided to set up your space and then to lay back to release stress, soften your body, explore your pleasure, and remember you’re worthy and deserving of feeling good. Experience freedom from your feed, freedom from making decisions, and freedom from being in charge. Instead relax back to receive, receive, receive.

TRAUMA INFORMED. NON-GENDERED & INCLUSIVE LANGUAGE. INTERSECTIONAL. Please share your access needs.

Recording is available until Friday, July 25, 2025 at 5 pm PT.

IF YOU FEEL LIKE:

• Your sexuality is broken

• You’re not normal but everyone else is having amazing experiences

• Masturbating makes you feel lonelier

• You watch too much porn, and it’s a problem

• Sex is sinful and wrong

• Your body is dirty and unworthy of love

• You’re ashamed of who you are, how you look, and/or how you feel
  

BUT YOU FEEL BRAVE & CURIOUS, AND YOU WANT TO EXPERIENCE:

• Your body as sacred and divine

• Your whole self as deserving of love

• Your sexuality as worthy of honoring and expressing

• Deep, intimate connection to and acceptance of all parts of yourself

• Celebration of your unique pleasure and authentic expression

• Warm and kind guidance to explore your body

• Permission to honor what you need moment to moment

• Encouragement to celebrate your body, sexuality, and pleasure

THIS CLASS IS FOR:

• PEOPLE WHO ALREADY HAVE A GREAT MASTURBATION OR SELF-PLEASURE PRACTICE who want to embrace their divinity

• PEOPLE WHO WANT TO HEAL and are willing to access love and compassion around woundings for deeper self-love and acceptance

• PEOPLE WHO FEEL RELIANT ON PARTNERED SEX FOR PLEASURE AND VALUE and have forgotten who they are as sexual beings with desires all their own

THIS CLASS IS NOT FOR:

• PEOPLE WHO NEED A TRAUMA SPECIALIST and may have specific sexual trauma, diagnosed PTSD, or need to seek other inner work

• PEOPLE WHO WANT A PILL OR A QUICK FIX and who aren’t ready to commit to vulnerable and exciting inner and outer work

Welcome To SACRED SELF-PLEASURE: A Guided Class

IN THIS CLASS, YOU’LL GET:

• Simple, step-by-step guidance for Sacred Setup & Preparation to make your space feel special

• A guided experience into Sacred Self-Pleasure so you can rewire masturbation into a spiritual practice

• My Shifting for Sexual Intimacy Exercise for getting out of your head and to stop making lists so you can set down work and chores to slow down, be present and connect with yourself all so you can relax and enjoy your body

• Follow the Safety Resourcing & Anchoring Practice for anytime you feel a sense of discomfort, overwhelm, panic, or flashback so you can calm yourself and regulate

• My Consent & Slowing Down Rewiring Process for gaining safety and capacity for being present and feeling sensations in your body

• Periodic reminders to check in with your Turn On Signaling System for sensitizing to your turn-on changing and learning what to do if you want to slow things down or speed things up

• Guidance through the 8 Holistic Sex Tools that transform masturbation into an experience of tantric sacred self-pleasure

• The Recap & Aftercare Communication Practice for sharing what went well, what could have been different, and what you need to feel cared for and safe so you can move into the rest of your day grounded and supported

CONNECT TO & FEEL YOUR HEART
Be guided through a heart-focused class with active breathwork and guided visualization for deep connection to yourself.

TRAUMA INFORMED. GENDER NEUTRAL. INTERSECTIONAL. Please share your access needs.

YOU WANT TO:

• Connect to your heart

• Feel human again

• Stop feeling numb or dissociated from your body

• Slow down the overwhelm

• Lead from your heart

• Feel what you're feeling in a safer way

• Experience a deep and spiritual connection to yourself and all things

TO GET THERE, THIS CLASS INCLUDES:

• Learn the Shifting for Presence & Connection practice for any time you want to context shift and be in the moment

• Follow the Safety Resourcing & Anchoring practice for anytime you feel a sense of overwhelm, panic, or flashback

• A simple Sensational Presence Practice for connecting your body and your mind and sensitizing to the wisdom of your body

• Activating Heart Sensation Breathwork for igniting feeling in your chest even if you feel numb

• Stream joy and compassion throughout your system with the Eight Directions Body Love-Filling Breath

• To strengthen the feelings of love and emotion, we'll invite Sounding Sensations Play

• Offer our heart what it needs with the Safety & Softness Intentions to the Heart practice

• To move beyond our own experience and to an experience of interconnectedness, we'll explore the Universal Heart & Love Connection Breath Visualization

• To build a loving and caring relationship with your body and hear, we'll go through a guided Chest Massage

• We'll come to a close with the Integration & Aftercare Practice so you can reflect on your experience and know what you need moving into the rest of your day and week

TURN OFF YOUR CAMERA ∙ TURN OFF YOUR MIC ∙ BE GUIDED TOWARD YOUR PLEASURE
Experience self-pleasure as a sacred way to be with your sexuality. Rewire masturbation away from a stress-relieving, help-you-sleep thing…toward a deep and meaningful way to connect with yourself.

You’ll be guided to set up your space and then to lay back to release stress, soften your body, explore your pleasure, and remember you’re worthy and deserving of feeling good. Experience freedom from your feed, freedom from making decisions, and freedom from being in charge. Instead relax back to receive, receive, receive.

TRAUMA INFORMED. NON-GENDERED & INCLUSIVE LANGUAGE. INTERSECTIONAL. Please share your access needs.

Recording is available until Friday, July 18, 2025 at 5 pm PST.

IF YOU FEEL LIKE:

• Your sexuality is broken

• You’re not normal but everyone else is having amazing experiences

• Masturbating makes you feel lonelier

• You watch too much porn, and it’s a problem

• Sex is sinful and wrong

• Your body is dirty and unworthy of love

• You’re ashamed of who you are, how you look, and/or how you feel
  

BUT YOU FEEL BRAVE & CURIOUS, AND YOU WANT TO EXPERIENCE:

• Your body as sacred and divine

• Your whole self as deserving of love

• Your sexuality as worthy of honoring and expressing

• Deep, intimate connection to and acceptance of all parts of yourself

• Celebration of your unique pleasure and authentic expression

• Warm and kind guidance to explore your body

• Permission to honor what you need moment to moment

• Encouragement to celebrate your body, sexuality, and pleasure

THIS CLASS IS FOR:

• PEOPLE WHO ALREADY HAVE A GREAT MASTURBATION OR SELF-PLEASURE PRACTICE who want to embrace their divinity

• PEOPLE WHO WANT TO HEAL and are willing to access love and compassion around woundings for deeper self-love and acceptance

• PEOPLE WHO FEEL RELIANT ON PARTNERED SEX FOR PLEASURE AND VALUE and have forgotten who they are as sexual beings with desires all their own

THIS CLASS IS NOT FOR:

• PEOPLE WHO NEED A TRAUMA SPECIALIST and may have specific sexual trauma, diagnosed PTSD, or need to seek other inner work

• PEOPLE WHO WANT A PILL OR A QUICK FIX and who aren’t ready to commit to vulnerable and exciting inner and outer work

Welcome To SACRED SELF-PLEASURE: A Guided Class

IN THIS CLASS, YOU’LL GET:

• Simple, step-by-step guidance for Sacred Setup & Preparation to make your space feel special

• A guided experience into Sacred Self-Pleasure so you can rewire masturbation into a spiritual practice

• My Shifting for Sexual Intimacy Exercise for getting out of your head and to stop making lists so you can set down work and chores to slow down, be present and connect with yourself all so you can relax and enjoy your body

• Follow the Safety Resourcing & Anchoring Practice for anytime you feel a sense of discomfort, overwhelm, panic, or flashback so you can calm yourself and regulate

• My Consent & Slowing Down Rewiring Process for gaining safety and capacity for being present and feeling sensations in your body

• Periodic reminders to check in with your Turn On Signaling System for sensitizing to your turn-on changing and learning what to do if you want to slow things down or speed things up

• Guidance through the 8 Holistic Sex Tools that transform masturbation into an experience of tantric sacred self-pleasure

• The Recap & Aftercare Communication Practice for sharing what went well, what could have been different, and what you need to feel cared for and safe so you can move into the rest of your day grounded and supported

LEARN ABOUT A JADE EGG PRACTICE!
Listen to what a jade egg practice is, what kinds of jade eggs to consider purchasing, and how to string a jade egg. You'll also hear about the intentions behind a jade egg practice as well as the physical, emotional, and spiritual benefits of a jade egg practice. Finally, you'll be introduced to a warm up exercise you can try, and you’ll be invited to join live and guided jade egg practices throughout the summer.

TRAUMA INFORMED. GENDER NEUTRAL & INCLUSIVE. INTERSECTIONAL. Please share your access needs.

YOU WANT TO:

• Connect to your sexuality

• Have orgasms quickly and more easily

• Feel at home in your body

• Finally have an orgasm

• Remember what it feels like to be alive

• Experience different types of orgasms

• Be a sexual person again

• Become multiorgasmic

TO GET THERE, THIS WEBINAR INCLUDES:

• Accessible and easy to understand introduction to a jade egg practice and taoism

• The 4-Step Jade Egg Setup traditional jade egg and crystal egg options (right egg, right size egg, boiling, stringing)

• An introduction to 8 Holistic Sex Tools that are a part of the standard practice, so you can begin to understand why it's important to reorient away from sex and to move toward pleasure

• A detailed breakdown of the physical, emotional, and spiritual benefits so you have an in-depth understanding of why the practice is so powerful

• A bite-sized exercise that’s foundational practice for within a jade egg practice and also as a stand alone daily practice

• Invitation to trauma-informed, gender inclusive, intersectional live and guided jade egg practices to experience for yourself

• Opportunities to ask questions and hear other people's answers so you can know if this is a practice you want to learn and experience

THIS WORKSHOP IS FOR:

• Women and people who have vaginas who want to explore a sensual and spiritual self-pleasure practice to (re)connect with their sexuality

• Queer and trans folk who have vaginas or energetic vaginas who want to experience sacred sexuality outside heteronormative, binary paradigms of "sacred masculinity" and "sacred femininity"

• People who feel numb or disconnected from their bodies and want to slowly and gently learn how to reconnect

• People who have sexual trauma histories who have worked with therapists and now want to learn and actually experience how to feel safer and more connected to their bodies in a trauma-informed way without pushing or forcing

• People who have had surgery around their cervix, ovaries, uteruses, vaginas, and/or breasts and want to connect with and strengthen the energy to these parts of them

LEARN HOW TO OFFER & RECEIVE CERVICAL ORGASMS
Listen to comparisons between cervical orgasms and other types of orgasms as well as comparisons to drugs like ayahuasca and DMT. You'll learn or be reminded of where the cervix is, see various cervices, and learn cervical orgasm technique. Finally, you'll be introduced to dearmoring the cervix on your own if you have a cervix or with a partner with an acupressure-like exercise example.

TRAUMA INFORMED. GENDER NEUTRAL & INCLUSIVE. INTERSECTIONAL. Please share your access needs.

YOU WANT TO EXPERIENCE:

• Something bigger, deeper, more powerful than regular sex

• Another world, dimension, timeline, be reborn

• An altered state of consciousness without drugs

• Euphoric transformation and connection

• Ecstatic sexual bliss

• Sacred spiritual oneness with the universe…as the universe

TO GET THERE, WITH THIS WEBINAR:

• Hear about how cervical orgasm is one of the 7 Most Popular Types of Orgasms and how it compares and contrasts to others in experience

• Learn the Cervical Orgasm Setup with location, pictures, and technique

• An introduction to Cervical Dearmoring, a necessary part of healing tension and pain to activate the pleasure potential of the cervix

• An acupressure exercise to familiarize yourself for Cervical Dearmoring

• Opportunities to ask questions and hear other people's answers so you can know if this is a path you want to explore

THIS WORKSHOP IS FOR:

• Women, non-binary, and trans people who have cervixes who want to explore a transcendent orgasmic experience

• Women, non-binary, and trans people who were born with cervixes who still have the nerve pathways and connections to experience cervical orgasms even if their cervix has been surgically removed

• Women, non-binary, and trans people who experience numbness or pain during partnered sex or self-pleasure and want to slowly and gently learn how to heal and reconnect to their sexuality

• People who care about and are sexually intimate with women, non-binary, and trans people who have or have had cervixes and want to learn how to support them to feel safer in their bodies and with their sexualities through healing the cervix and inviting cervical orgasms

TURN OFF YOUR CAMERA ∙ TURN OFF YOUR MIC ∙ BE GUIDED TOWARD YOUR PLEASURE
Experience self-pleasure as a sacred way to be with your sexuality. Rewire masturbation away from a stress-relieving, help-you-sleep thing…toward a deep and meaningful way to connect with yourself.

You’ll be guided to set up your space and then to lay back to release stress, soften your body, explore your pleasure, and remember you’re worthy and deserving of feeling good. Experience freedom from your feed, freedom from making decisions, and freedom from being in charge. Instead relax back to receive, receive, receive.

TRAUMA INFORMED. NON-GENDERED & INCLUSIVE LANGUAGE. INTERSECTIONAL. Please share your access needs.

Recording is available until Monday, July 7, 2025 at 5 pm PST.

IF YOU FEEL LIKE:

• Your sexuality is broken

• You’re not normal but everyone else is having amazing experiences

• Masturbating makes you feel lonelier

• You watch too much porn, and it’s a problem

• Sex is sinful and wrong

• Your body is dirty and unworthy of love

• You’re ashamed of who you are, how you look, and/or how you feel
  

BUT YOU FEEL BRAVE & CURIOUS, AND YOU WANT TO EXPERIENCE:

• Your body as sacred and divine

• Your whole self as deserving of love

• Your sexuality as worthy of honoring and expressing

• Deep, intimate connection to and acceptance of all parts of yourself

• Celebration of your unique pleasure and authentic expression

• Warm and kind guidance to explore your body

• Permission to honor what you need moment to moment

• Encouragement to celebrate your body, sexuality, and pleasure

THIS CLASS IS FOR:

• PEOPLE WHO ALREADY HAVE A GREAT MASTURBATION OR SELF-PLEASURE PRACTICE who want to embrace their divinity

• PEOPLE WHO WANT TO HEAL and are willing to access love and compassion around woundings for deeper self-love and acceptance

• PEOPLE WHO FEEL RELIANT ON PARTNERED SEX FOR PLEASURE AND VALUE and have forgotten who they are as sexual beings with desires all their own

THIS CLASS IS NOT FOR:

• PEOPLE WHO NEED A TRAUMA SPECIALIST and may have specific sexual trauma, diagnosed PTSD, or need to seek other inner work

• PEOPLE WHO WANT A PILL OR A QUICK FIX and who aren’t ready to commit to vulnerable and exciting inner and outer work

Welcome To SACRED SELF-PLEASURE: A Guided Class

IN THIS CLASS, YOU’LL GET:

• Simple, step-by-step guidance for Sacred Setup & Preparation to make your space feel special

• A guided experience into Sacred Self-Pleasure so you can rewire masturbation into a spiritual practice

• My Shifting for Sexual Intimacy Exercise for getting out of your head and to stop making lists so you can set down work and chores to slow down, be present and connect with yourself all so you can relax and enjoy your body

• Follow the Safety Resourcing & Anchoring Practice for anytime you feel a sense of discomfort, overwhelm, panic, or flashback so you can calm yourself and regulate

• My Consent & Slowing Down Rewiring Process for gaining safety and capacity for being present and feeling sensations in your body

• Periodic reminders to check in with your Turn On Signaling System for sensitizing to your turn-on changing and learning what to do if you want to slow things down or speed things up

• Guidance through the 8 Holistic Sex Tools that transform masturbation into an experience of tantric sacred self-pleasure

• The Recap & Aftercare Communication Practice for sharing what went well, what could have been different, and what you need to feel cared for and safe so you can move into the rest of your day grounded and supported

LEARN YOUR REAL & TRUE LIBIDO
Learn five of the most important frameworks around love, desire, sex, & relationships by taking five quizzes to get immediate information about yourself for change you can apply right away

TRAUMA INFORMED. GENDER NEUTRAL. INTERSECTIONAL. Please share your access needs.

YOU WANT TO:

• Have more sex

• Feel loved before moving toward sex

• Feel good during sex

• Know if you're normal when it comes to sex

• Experience deeper connection

• Be confident around how and when to initiate sex and deeper connection

TO GET THERE, THIS WORKSHOP INCLUDES:

• The fun, easy, and deeply insightful BEDROCK: 5-Piece Framework for learning about your libido to bring crystal clarity to your love, sex, and relationships

• Fill-in-the-blanks worksheets for the five quizzes I give to all of my private clients, so you can return over and over to who you are and how you work

• A detailed breakdown of each framework so you have an in-depth understanding of why they're important and how they work together

• Time and support in a small group or on your own so you can take the quizzes and talk through your results to be crystal clear on how they work for you

• Opportunities to ask questions and hear other people's answers so you can apply with confidence what you've learned to your sex and intimacy right now

THIS WORKSHOP IS FOR:

• People who are single and want to know more about themselves when it comes to love, sex, and relationships

• People who are dating and/or having casual sex who want to be transparent around what they’re looking for

• Queer, trans, heterosexual folks as well as those practicing CNM/ENM and/or additional expressions & dynamics who want to know who they are and name what they want outside of oppressive, dominant paradigms

• Couples whose relationship is new and who want to start off with clarity and self-awareness to build a strong relationship

• Long-term committed couples who want to reconnect and rekindle their sex life and are willing to learn about themselves to begin again

• Committed couples at any stage who desire to go deeper and explore who you are to grow an amazing relationship and sex life

CONNECT TO & FEEL YOUR HEART
Be guided through a heart-focused class with active breathwork and guided visualization for deep connection to yourself.

TRAUMA INFORMED. GENDER NEUTRAL. INTERSECTIONAL. Please share your access needs.

YOU WANT TO:

• Connect to your heart

• Feel human again

• Stop feeling numb or dissociated from your body

• Slow down the overwhelm

• Lead from your heart

• Feel what you're feeling in a safer way

• Experience a deep and spiritual connection to yourself and all things

TO GET THERE, THIS CLASS INCLUDES:

• Learn the Shifting for Presence & Connection practice for any time you want to context shift and be in the moment

• Follow the Safety Resourcing & Anchoring practice for anytime you feel a sense of overwhelm, panic, or flashback

• A simple Sensational Presence Practice for connecting your body and your mind and sensitizing to the wisdom of your body

• Activating Heart Sensation Breathwork for igniting feeling in your chest even if you feel numb

• Stream joy and compassion throughout your system with the Eight Directions Body Love-Filling Breath

• To strengthen the feelings of love and emotion, we'll invite Sounding Sensations Play

• Offer our heart what it needs with the Safety & Softness Intentions to the Heart practice

• To move beyond our own experience and to an experience of interconnectedness, we'll explore the Universal Heart & Love Connection Breath Visualization

• To build a loving and caring relationship with your body and hear, we'll go through a guided Chest Massage

• We'll come to a close with the Integration & Aftercare Practice so you can reflect on your experience and know what you need moving into the rest of your day and week

LEARN THE TRUTH ABOUT TANTRIC MASSAGE
Hear about the types of tantric massage, the intentions behind them, the glorious benefits of tantric massage when done well, and the hurt and harm that can happen when we're not taught well. Finally, you'll hear solutions that include an invitation into an 8-session special tantric massage private course.

TRAUMA INFORMED. GENDER NEUTRAL & INCLUSIVE. INTERSECTIONAL. Please share your access needs.

YOU WANT TO:

• Experience a deep sexual and spiritual connection

• Be an amazing and confident lover

• Safely surrender during sexual intimacy

• Feel absolutely NO PRESSURE to perform

• Give your partner deep pleasure and multiple orgasms

• Know bliss and ecstasy

• Explore sacred sexuality

TO GET THERE, THIS WEBINAR INCLUDES:

• The accessible and easy to understand 3-3-3 Tantra Intro for a foundation in tantric philosophies, principles, and practices so you can begin to feel grounded in what tantra is about before practicing tantra

• An introduction to three basic types of tantric massage and the 8 Holistic Sex Tools that are a part of the standard practice, so you can begin to understand why it's important to reorient away from sex and to move toward pleasure

• A detailed breakdown of the benefits of each so you have an in-depth understanding of why they're so powerful and how they work together

• A transparent look at the hurt and harm that tantra and tantric massage can cause

• Solutions with a trauma-informed, gender inclusive, intersectional approach to learning and practicing tantric massage whether you're receiving, offering, or ideally both

• Opportunities to ask questions and hear other people's answers so you can know if this is a practice you want to learn and experience

THIS WORKSHOP IS FOR:

• People who are single and want to explore tantric self-massage as a sexual and spiritual practice on their own for deep self-intimacy

• Queer and trans folk who want to experience sacred sexuality outside heteronormative, binary paradigms of "sacred masculinity" and "sacred femininity"

• Committed couples at any stage who want to go deeper in their connection with themselves and with one another

• White people and non-Indian-subcontinent folk who want to explore a tradition within more modern contexts (some versions have always been meant as a practice within modern life)

• People who have sexual trauma history, have grown up in religion, or exist in our rape culture-enabling society who want to learn a trauma-informed approach to tantric massage and practice

CONNECT TO & FEEL YOUR HEART
Be guided through a heart-focused class with active breathwork and guided visualization for deep connection to yourself.

TRAUMA INFORMED. GENDER NEUTRAL. INTERSECTIONAL. Please share your access needs.

YOU WANT TO:

• Connect to your heart

• Feel human again

• Stop feeling numb or dissociated from your body

• Slow down the overwhelm

• Lead from your heart

• Feel what you're feeling in a safer way

• Experience a deep and spiritual connection to yourself and all things

TO GET THERE, THIS CLASS INCLUDES:

• Learn the Shifting for Presence & Connection practice for any time you want to context shift and be in the moment

• Follow the Safety Resourcing & Anchoring practice for anytime you feel a sense of overwhelm, panic, or flashback

• A simple Sensational Presence Practice for connecting your body and your mind and sensitizing to the wisdom of your body

• Activating Heart Sensation Breathwork for igniting feeling in your chest even if you feel numb

• Stream joy and compassion throughout your system with the Eight Directions Body Love-Filling Breath

• To strengthen the feelings of love and emotion, we'll invite Sounding Sensations Play

• Offer our heart what it needs with the Safety & Softness Intentions to the Heart practice

• To move beyond our own experience and to an experience of interconnectedness, we'll explore the Universal Heart & Love Connection Breath Visualization

• To build a loving and caring relationship with your body and hear, we'll go through a guided Chest Massage

• We'll come to a close with the Integration & Aftercare Practice so you can reflect on your experience and know what you need moving into the rest of your day and week

LEARN YOUR REAL & TRUE LIBIDO
Learn five of the most important frameworks around love, desire, sex, & relationships by taking five quizzes to get immediate information about yourself for change you can apply right away

TRAUMA INFORMED. GENDER NEUTRAL. INTERSECTIONAL. Please share your access needs.

YOU WANT TO:

• Have more sex

• Feel loved before moving toward sex

• Feel good during sex

• Know if you're normal when it comes to sex

• Experience deeper connection

• Be confident around how and when to initiate sex and deeper connection

TO GET THERE, THIS WORKSHOP INCLUDES:

• The fun, easy, and deeply insightful BEDROCK: 5-Piece Framework for learning about your libido to bring crystal clarity to your love, sex, and relationships

• Fill-in-the-blanks worksheets for the five quizzes I give to all of my private clients, so you can return over and over to who you are and how you work

• A detailed breakdown of each framework so you have an in-depth understanding of why they're important and how they work together

• Time and support in a small group or on your own so you can take the quizzes and talk through your results to be crystal clear on how they work for you

• Opportunities to ask questions and hear other people's answers so you can apply with confidence what you've learned to your sex and intimacy right now

THIS WORKSHOP IS FOR:

• People who are single and want to know more about themselves when it comes to love, sex, and relationships

• People who are dating and/or having casual sex who want to be transparent around what they’re looking for

• Queer, trans, heterosexual folks as well as those practicing CNM/ENM and/or additional expressions & dynamics who want to know who they are and name what they want outside of oppressive, dominant paradigms

• Couples whose relationship is new and who want to start off with clarity and self-awareness to build a strong relationship

• Long-term committed couples who want to reconnect and rekindle their sex life and are willing to learn about themselves to begin again

• Committed couples at any stage who desire to go deeper and explore who you are to grow an amazing relationship and sex life

LEARN ABOUT A JADE EGG PRACTICE!
Listen to what a jade egg practice is, what kinds of jade eggs to consider purchasing, and how to string a jade egg. You'll also hear about the intentions behind a jade egg practice as well as the physical, emotional, and spiritual benefits of a jade egg practice. Finally, you'll be introduced to a warm up exercise you can try, and you’ll be invited to join live and guided jade egg practices throughout the summer.

TRAUMA INFORMED. GENDER NEUTRAL & INCLUSIVE. INTERSECTIONAL. Please share your access needs.

YOU WANT TO:

• Connect to your sexuality

• Have orgasms quickly and more easily

• Feel at home in your body

• Finally have an orgasm

• Remember what it feels like to be alive

• Experience different types of orgasms

• Be a sexual person again

• Become multiorgasmic

TO GET THERE, THIS WEBINAR INCLUDES:

• Accessible and easy to understand introduction to a jade egg practice and taoism

• The 4-Step Jade Egg Setup traditional jade egg and crystal egg options (right egg, right size egg, boiling, stringing)

• An introduction to 8 Holistic Sex Tools that are a part of the standard practice, so you can begin to understand why it's important to reorient away from sex and to move toward pleasure

• A detailed breakdown of the physical, emotional, and spiritual benefits so you have an in-depth understanding of why the practice is so powerful

• A bite-sized exercise that’s foundational practice for within a jade egg practice and also as a stand alone daily practice

• Invitation to trauma-informed, gender inclusive, intersectional live and guided jade egg practices to experience for yourself

• Opportunities to ask questions and hear other people's answers so you can know if this is a practice you want to learn and experience

THIS WORKSHOP IS FOR:

• Women and people who have vaginas who want to explore a sensual and spiritual self-pleasure practice to (re)connect with their sexuality

• Queer and trans folk who have vaginas or energetic vaginas who want to experience sacred sexuality outside heteronormative, binary paradigms of "sacred masculinity" and "sacred femininity"

• People who feel numb or disconnected from their bodies and want to slowly and gently learn how to reconnect

• People who have sexual trauma histories who have worked with therapists and now want to learn and actually experience how to feel safer and more connected to their bodies in a trauma-informed way without pushing or forcing

• People who have had surgery around their cervix, ovaries, uteruses, vaginas, and/or breasts and want to connect with and strengthen the energy to these parts of them

Move Toward Sexual Intimacy by Reawakening & Exploring Your Sensual Vibrancy

YOU WANT TO FEEL VIBRANT AND ALIVE

Without drinking a third cup of coffee and vibrating through your skin

Without having to take vacations every month or quit your job

Without having an existential crisis or being a mid-life cliché

Let’s slow down. Let’s feel more. Let’s do less…once a week.

LET’S START YOUR SEX PRACTICE

Join me for a 75-minute Sex Practice where I will guide both to receive and offer a sense-based experience to make you feel alive again. Slow down, connect with your bodies, take your time, and delight in each sense and sensation without rushing toward a goal.

For Loving & Committed Couples F0r Whom Sex is Important

People in All Bodies, of All Expressions, and in All Relationship Dynamics Are Invited & Welcome

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Early price: $40 USD per couple through March 12
Regular price: $45 USD per couple

Move Toward Sexual Intimacy by Transforming Your Limiting Sensual Self-Perceptions

CLAIM YOUR AUTHENTIC SEXUALITY

Without collapsing into what you think your partner wants…

Without the guilt and shame of religion and dominant beliefs…

Without letting your ghosts haunt your bedroom….

Instead, start with clarifying your most pleasurable sexual self and allow your partner to hold space for your fears and desires

BY STARTING YOUR SEX PRACTICE

Join me for a 75-minute Sex Practice where I will support you to identify who you are in the bedroom right now, who your partner wants you to be, and who you are when your sexuality is given all the permission to experience pleasure, desire, and arousal exactly the way you want to without getting frozen in performance.

For Loving Couples For Whom Sex is Important

People in All Bodies, of All Expressions, and in All Relationship Dynamics Are Invited & Welcome

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Early price: $40 per couple through February 27
Regular price: $45 per couple

A Holding Space Training for Sexual Feedback for Loving Couples Within A 75-Minute Sex Practice

SHARE YOUR DEEPEST TRUTHS AROUND SEX & INTIMACY

Without being shut down, criticized, or told you're wrong…

AVOIDING defensiveness, it being taken personally, or getting misconstrued…

Without feeling like your desires and fears don't matter….

Instead, start with communication that feels like unconditional love & support while exploring curious questions for experiencing more pleasure in your body

Join me for a 75-minute Sex Practice where I will guide you through a holding space training so you can be seen, heard, and understood and offer the same to your partner before moving into exploring and experiencing asking and being asked four questions for feedback before, during, and after sex.

For Loving Couples F0r Whom Sex is Important

People in All Bodies, of All Expressions, and in All Relationship Dynamics Are Invited & Welcome

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Early price: $40 USD per couple through February 26
Regular price: $45 per couple

Join me for a holding space training for self-talk around self-pleasuring and partnered sex. I will guide you toward experiencing communication with yourself that feels like unconditional love while exploring curious questions for experiencing more acceptance with & pleasure in your body.

For Sensual & Sexual Individuals and Those Who Want to Be

Early price: $20 USD per person through February 26
Regular price: $25 per person

Join me for a holding space training for self-talk around self-pleasuring and partnered sex. I will guide you toward experiencing communication with yourself that feels like unconditional love while exploring curious questions for experiencing more acceptance with & pleasure in your body.

For Sensual & Sexual Individuals and Those Who Want to Be

Early price: $20 USD per person through February 26
Regular price: $25 per person

Join me for a 30-minute class to get out of emotional overwhelm and shift into human-centered culture-making and world-changing action with a bite-sized emotions-expressing practice in less than seven minutes.

This is event is inspired by an intersectional, trauma-informed, queer sacred sexuality framework. ALL ARE WELCOME.

Non-gendered and inclusive language is used throughout

People in All Bodies, of All Expressions, and in All Relationship Dynamics Are Invited & Welcome

Please share access needs and how I can support you. I have yoga mats, chairs with and without arms, pillows, and blankets for various setups and configurations.

Price: $15 per person

Move Toward Sexual Intimacy from a Foundation of Relationship Clarity & Connection

GET ON THE SAME PAGE & HAVE ONE ANOTHER’S BACKS

Without having to read or translate the whole book of “My Partner”…

NOT by going in circles and circles arguing and feeling misunderstood or dismissed…

Without eye rolls and audible exhales of frustration…

Instead, start with relationship clarity around what’s important to each of you & building the energy of togetherness BY STARTING YOUR SEX PRACTICE

Join me for a 75-minute Sex Practice where I will guide you to connect to yourself and your partner with a communication practice and the practice of creating an energetic couple bubble.

For Loving Couples F0r Whom Sex is Important

People in All Bodies, of All Expressions, and in All Relationship Dynamics Are Invited & Welcome

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Early price: $40 USD per couple through January 29
Regular price: $45 USD per couple

Move Toward Sexual Intimacy from a Foundation of Love & Connection

Co-create a HEART CONNECTION

• Without hours of pillowtalk taking away from needed sleep…

• NOT by adding to the busy and overwhelmed already happening…

• Without it feeling like a chore, burden, or responsibility…

Instead, start with clarity around how you offer love to and receive love from one another

BY STARTING YOUR SEX PRACTICE

Join me for a 75-minute Sex Practice where I will guide you to build a loving connection with your partner by clarifying your partner’s and your primary Love Languages, holding space for the details around feeling loved and loving toward one another, and invite you into experiencing the energy of joy, love, and compassion…all without it being your anniversary.

For Loving Couples F0r Whom Sex is Important

People in All Bodies, of All Expressions, and in All Relationship Dynamics Are Invited & Welcome

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Early price: $40 per couple through January 15
Regular price: $45 per couple

FIVE Quizzes.
FIVE Frameworks.
CLARITY for Life.

For people for whom sex and intimacy is important and those who want to experience deep sexual connection with themselves and a partner or partners

THIS IS WHAT I WANT FOR YOU:

1. Love that fills you up and lights you from within

2. Sex that inspires your fullest expressions and invites you into the deepest pleasure

3. Understanding of how you’re wired and the ways in which you work

4. Clarity around what is important for you in a relationship

5. Focus on what you want to experience through partnered sex (because you can have orgasms on your own)

6. Confidence around how to pull it all together

THIS WORKSHOP IS SPECIFICALLY FOR:

• Individuals not in a relationship who want to clarify their love and pleasure.

• People who are dating and/or having casual sex who want to authentically request what they’re looking for.

• Queer, trans, heterosexual folks as well as those practicing CNM/ENM and/or additional expressions & dynamics who desire to know who they are and name what they want outside of oppressive dominant paradigms

• Couples whose relationship is new and who want to start off with clarity and self-awareness toward depth.

• People in a relationship who are excited to learn about themselves and what they want and need.

• Long-term committed couples who want to reconnect and are willing to learn about themselves to begin again.

• Committed couples at any stage who desire to go deeper and explore who you are to grow an amazing relationship and sex life.

WITH THIS EXPERIENCE YOU GET:

1. ACCESS to the five most important quizzes you need to bring clarity to your love, pleasure, and relationships

2. INSIGHT into why each one is important with a 30-minute introduction

3. SUPPORT in a small group to move through the quizzes and talk through your individual results for 30 minutes

4. ADVICE so you can apply what you've learned to your sex and intimacy right now with a 30-minute Q&A

ABOUT YOUR FACILITATOR:

Daniela (she/they) is a certified Sex and Intimacy Coach for couples and individuals as well as a speaker and writer practicing somatic abolitionism and appropriated tantra.

Named one of the ten best Sex and Intimacy Coaches of 2023 by DatingAdvice.com, she supports couples and individuals to experience deep sexual connection and intimacy with themselves and with their partner(s).

With over twenty-three years of experience coaching people one-on-one and teaching in college classrooms and yoga studios, she curates exercises and practices steeped in somatic attachment theory, neuroscience, embodied conflict resolution, trauma healing, modern psychology, and ancient tantric and taoist wisdom.

Daniela is a queer cisgendered woman raced as white born in the Bay Area as well as a biological and transnational adoptive parent of three.

She lives and works as an uninvited guest on occupied Ohlone land that’s known as San Jose, California in the United States.

For her, nothing is more important than connection.

Website: DanielaStevens.com

Social Media: @danielastevensnow

Join me for a 75-minute Sex Practice where I will guide both to receive and offer a sense-based experience to make you feel alive again. Slow down, connect with your bodies, take your time, and delight in each sense and sensation without rushing toward a goal.

For Loving & Committed Couples F0r Whom Sex is Important

People in All Bodies, of All Expressions, and in All Relationship Dynamics Are Invited & Welcome

Early price: $30 USD per couple through December 4
Regular price: $35 USD per couple

READ MORE ABOUT THE DETAILS HERE

Join me for a 75-minute Sex Practice where I will support you to illuminate what’s in the dark by clarifying, connecting, and healing around your sexual selves.

For Loving Couples For Whom Sex is Important

People in All Bodies, of All Expressions, and in All Relationship Dynamics Are Invited & Welcome

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Early price: $30 per couple through November 6
Regular price: $35 per couple

Join me for a 75-minute Sex Practice where I will guide you through a holding space training so you can be seen, heard, and understood and offer the same to your partner before moving into exploring and experiencing asking and being asked four questions for feedback before, during, and after sex.

For Loving Couples F0r Whom Sex is Important

People in All Bodies, of All Expressions, and in All Relationship Dynamics Are Invited & Welcome

Early price: $30 USD per couple through October 23
Regular price: $35 per couple

Join me for a 75-minute Sex Practice where I will guide you to connect to yourself and your partner with a communication practice and the practice of creating an energetic couple bubble.

For Loving Couples F0r Whom Sex is Important

People in All Bodies, of All Expressions, and in All Relationship Dynamics Are Invited & Welcome

Early price: $30 USD per couple through October 9
Regular price: $35 per couple