GUIDED SACRED SELF-PLEASURE: A Passion & Power Class for Feeling Sexual Self-Confidence
Sunday, February 1, 2026
10:00 -11:15 am Pacific*
$30 per person on Zoom
with recording available for one week
$40 for unlimited access to the guided audio
without the check ins and check outs
*Click here to convert to your time zone
Experience self-pleasure as a powerful, passionate, and sacred way to build confidence around your sexuality
Rewire masturbation away from a lonely, hidden thing…toward a deep and meaningful way to know what you want and feel capable of going after it.
Share with other people before and after the guided class while dressed, covered, or with your camera off for a sense of collective belonging and connection.
Turn off your camera, turn off your mic, and be guided toward experiencing strength, power, and fire in your body.
TRAUMA INFORMED ∙ NON-GENDERED ∙ INCLUSIVE LANGUAGE ∙ INTERSECTIONAL
Please share your access needs.
IF YOU’VE BEEN TOLD OR TAUGHT:
Your body is gross
Touching yourself is bad
You must hide your sexuality
AND YOU FEEL:
Insecure about sex
Awkward about your body and sexuality
Self-conscious getting undressed
You don’t know what you want
You can’t go after what feels good
You don’t know how to be yourself around sex
Afraid of your power
Lacking in passion
Like you’re not enough
BUT YOU FEEL BRAVE & CURIOUS, AND YOU WANT TO EXPERIENCE:
Sexual confidence
Feeling powerful and present in your body
Connection to your passion
Control over your desires
THIS CLASS IS FOR:
PEOPLE WHO FEEL RELIANT ON PARTNERED SEX FOR PLEASURE AND VALUE and have forgotten who they are as sexual beings with desires all their own
PEOPLE WHO WANT TO HEAL THEIR RELATIONSHIP WITH POWER and want to feel confident without having to put other people down
PEOPLE WHO ALREADY HAVE A GREAT MASTURBATION OR SELF-PLEASURE PRACTICE who want to explore who they are in deep ways
THIS CLASS IS NOT FOR:
PEOPLE WHO WANT SEXUAL POWER OVER PEOPLE instead of power with others and not any kind of domination over them
PEOPLE WHO NEED A TRAUMA SPECIALIST and may have specific sexual trauma, diagnosed PTSD, or need to seek other inner work
PEOPLE WHO WANT A PILL OR A QUICK FIX and who aren’t ready to commit to vulnerable and deep inner and outer work
CLASS TIMELINE:
>> 10:00 - 10:05 am Introduction to the class
>> 10:05 - 10:15 am Checking in while dressed, covered, or with your camera off
>> 10:15 - 11:05 am Mics off and cameras off for our Guided Sacred Self-Pleasure class that’s trauma-informed and tantra-inspired
>> 11:05 - 11:15 am Checking out while dressed, covered, or with your camera off guided by our Integration & Aftercare Communication Practice
IN THIS CLASS, YOU’LL GET:
Simple, step-by-step guidance for Sacred Setup & Preparation to make your space feel special
Checking in and sharing with the group while dressed, covered, or with your camera off
A guided experience into Sacred Self-Pleasure so you can feel the power in your body and passion in your sexuality as a spiritual practice
Intention-Setting for Sacred Self-Pleasure for connecting with your body and naming the type of pleasure most needed by your body and the way you want to receive it
My Shifting for Intimacies Exercise for getting out of your head and to stop making lists so you can set down work and chores to slow down, be present and connect with yourself all so you can relax and enjoy your body
Follow the Safety Resourcing & Anchoring Practice for anytime you feel a sense of discomfort, overwhelm, panic, or flashback so you can calm yourself and regulate
Focused Fire Breath and Power Sounding for letting go of what no longer supports you and giving it to the earth to compost
Guidance through a Power Awakening Self-Massage to allow power to flow throughout
Pelvic Floor Strengthening and Relaxing to aid in the control and management of sexual energy in your body
The Microcosmic Orbit practice for circulating sexual energy throughout your body as a precursor to full body orgasms
Checking out and sharing with the group while dressed, covered, or with your camera off our Integration & Aftercare Communication Practice for sharing what went well, what could have been different, and what you need to feel cared for and safe so you can move into the rest of your day grounded and supported
Come Experience Your Pleasure As Power & Passion!
Daniela (she/they) is a trauma-informed, certified Sex & Intimacy Coach for couples and individuals in all bodies, of all expressions, and in all relationship dynamics. She’s also a certified Tantric Sex Coach, though she thinks it's more accurate to describe her as a Sacred Sexuality Coach inspired by tantric and taoist practices.
She started learning mindset and practices inspired by tantra and taoism in 2014 through Layla Martin, a white American woman, who was taught by Ma Ananda Sarita, a white English woman who for 17 years trained directly with Osho, an Indian guru. Her tantric practice is also informed by others like Lama Rod Owens, a Black queer Southern man formally trained in the Tibetan Buddhist and Tantric Buddhist lineage.
Named one of the ten best Sex and Intimacy Coaches of 2023 by DatingAdvice.com, she supports people to experience more sex and deeper connection with themselves and with their partner(s) without pushing, forcing, avoiding, or performing.
With over twenty-four years of experience coaching people one-on-one and teaching in college classrooms and wellness spaces, she curates exercises and practices steeped in somatic attachment theory, neuroscience, embodied conflict resolution, trauma resolution, and modern psychology and inspired by ancient tantric and taoist wisdom.
Daniela is a queer cisgendered woman raced as white born in the Bay Area as well as a biological and transnational adoptive parent of three.
She lives and works as an uninvited guest on occupied Ohlone land that’s currently known as San Jose, California in the United States.
For her, nothing is more important than connection.
