SEX BOX: Exploring Holistic Sex Tools for Expanding Pleasure and Orgasmic Capacity
Early bird: $17 per person by May 8
Regular price: $20 per person
Does it feel like if you knew how to invite more pleasure into your body, partnered sex would be better?
Does it feel like you want to be a better attuned lover?
When we’re told we have to learn what we like in order to share with our partner how they can invite us into more pleasure, it’s sooo helpful to have a framework for understanding orgasm.
We have to explore the embodiment, learn the words, and invite curiosity to be present all with an intention toward experiencing the most amount of pleasure possible in the moment.
Join me for an hour long in-person workshop where I will guide you through:
The formula or equation for understanding orgasm
Eight holistic sex tools for expanding pleasure and capacity for orgasms and multiple orgasms
Four questions to ask yourself during self-pleasure and partnered sex as well as what you can ask your partner
Whether you want to explore your sexuality on your own and/or want to improve your partnered sex, this workshop will offer you clarity around what orgasm is, eight holistic sex tools around building pleasure, and questions to ask ourselves and our partner to bolster our curiosity and confidence toward moving beyond feeling good toward feeling amazing.
INCLUSIVE & DIVERSE LANGUAGE AND GUIDANCE FOR PEOPLE IN ALL BODIES, OF ALL EXPRESSIONS, AND IN ALL RELATIONSHIP DYNAMICS WHO WANT TO DEEPLY CONNECT, REKINDLE, & FEEL RADIANT AND ALIVE
HERE IS WHAT YOU CAN EXPECT:
CREATE YOUR SPACE: Once you arrive, you’ll be invited to create a spot where you feel comfortable enough. This isn’t your private space, and these will be practices you can take home for private experiences. For this event, you might set up a yoga mat, grab a blanket (these are provided), and a pillow on the floor. It’s up to what feels good for you.
INTRO: I will introduce myself, and I will not invite you to introduce yourself to everyone else. This is a workshop for you and not a community-building workshop.
DESCRIPTIONS: Beginning with a sharing around an equation for orgasm, I'll then describe each of the eight holistic sex tools and four questions to ask during sexual intimacy with ourselves and/or with a partner.
SHIFTING & RESOURCING: We’ll then shift to embodiment starting with a guided meditation for setting down the outside world and connecting inward to our bodyminds. Next I'll support you to identify and connect with a resource toward enough safety to explore vulnerably and bravely.
GUIDED EMBODIMENT: Through a "cold" guided meditation without activating turn on or pleasure with touch, I'll invite you to imagine yourself in an experience of sexual intimacy while guiding you through a body-based visualization of each holistic sex tool being built upon the next and the experience of being asked/asking yourself the four sex feedback questions one at a time. There will be no explicit sexuality in the room. Everyone's clothes stay on the entire time.
SHIFT: A gentle shift out of the guided meditation practice will come with move, process, and begin to integrate slowly.
EXPLORE AT HOME: We’ll finish as I give you a sense of how to build on this “cold” guided practice at home with self-pleasure and/or partnered sex. You’ll receive an email from me within 24 hours with guided audios and additional offerings for support.
ABOUT YOUR FACILITATOR:
Daniela (she/they) is a certified Sex and Intimacy Coach, speaker, and writer practicing somatic abolitionism and neo-tantra.
Named one of the ten best Sex and Intimacy Coaches of 2023 by DatingAdvice.com, she supports couples and individuals to experience deep sexual connection and intimacy with themselves and with their partner(s).
With over twenty years of experience coaching people one-on-one and teaching in college classrooms and yoga studios, she curates exercises and practices steeped in somatic attachment theory, neuroscience, embodied conflict resolution, trauma healing, modern psychology, and ancient tantric and taoist wisdom.
Daniela is a queer cisgendered woman raced as white born in the Bay Area as well as a biological and transnational adoptive parent of three.
She lives and works as an uninvited guest on occupied Muwekma Ohlone land that’s known as San Jose, California in the United States.
For her, nothing is more important than connection.
Website: DanielaStevens.com
Social Media: @danielastevensnow
