I need to remind us that sex is important.
Intimacy is important.
Closeness...is important.
We are created for pleasure.
We are designed for interdependence.
I honestly believe people are happier without me in their lives.
"I'm tired" is the new "I'm fine." You're not tired. You're not fine.
This is How To Invite Heartbrokenness To Teach You
This is How To Gently Awaken Your Sexuality with Spring Energy
Here is what I want for us. Are you with me?
None of Us Wants to Be Abandoned...and how I want us to love more and deeper
Which is More Closed Off: Your Heart or Your Sexuality?
The Most Difficult Season of Your Relationship Might Need Support
This is How You Remember Who You Are and Explore Tantra As Playful
Gently Support One Another's Bodies and Sexuality with Loving Touch
This Is How You Connect Within...So You Know What You Need and Want
Can we just be where we're at...right here, right now?
Are you feeling an auspicious opening toward the light today?
Lay Back, Remember Who You Are, and Return Home to Yourself
This Is How You Move Toward Embodied Self-Love
Something so powerful and deep happened in a coaching session a few weeks ago.
I've been thinking about it and wanting to share it, thinking it might click a few things into place for you, too.
Because most of us...we want to experience love with a partner, with our person.
The idea of self-love can feel so far-fetched and inaccessible because we first experience love in relationship and attachment to our primary caregivers.
Why didn't anyone tell me we're all in our individual silos?!???
Acknowledging Where We Are To Get To Where We Want To Be
I am so grateful for Eliza's (she/her) reminder yesterday...for the permission her post offers me.
Because I have a pretty great relationship with gratitude. I come into celebration and thankfulness and gratitude quite easily.
And yesterday as I was acknowledging a lighter aspect of US Thanksgiving,
in addition to acknowledging National Day of Mourning and learning deeper around the myths and erasure of indigenous people,
I found I could barely lean into gratitude without a spring of grief upwelling right next to it.
When I felt the trauma of Trump begin to soften in my body, I couldn't ignore what came next
How to Not Get Overwhelmed and Numb To It All
I'm not sure where your thoughts or emotions are at right now, friend.
And over the last few days I've been running through a spectrum of grief and hope and despair and anger marked with sparks of action and creativity.
I've also been ruminating around what feminist marketing consultant Kelly Diels (she/her) calls my spot on the wall.